Batty Belfry
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Batty Belfry

Fapstronaut, Male, 24, from United States of America

3 June 2020 - Determined to learn more after seeing this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=1306&v=1E8PGchwuGA&feature=emb_title Jun 3, 2020 at 2:35 PM

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Jun 3, 2020 at 7:04 PM
    1. Batty Belfry
    2. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      31 May 2020 - Reading and reviewing a timely book, "The Lightest Object in the Universe" by Kimi Eisele. Calling parents for summer tutoring
    3. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      28 May 2020 - Deleted and blocked triggers again. Work isn't steady, but I will work for the work I need. I will keep going.
      1. |DEKU| and The Highlight like this.
    4. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      22 May 2020 - Teachers who teach for a paycheck are inhuman. I am the only one offering free tutoring but the buddy-buddy cliques silo me.
      1. |Fenris|, |DEKU| and Ὀρφεύς like this.
      2. |DEKU|
        |DEKU|
        Internet is my teacher, and it's free. Most teachers in school suck anyway. I don't think it's their fault though. It's just that the school system in itself is shitty, and way too old.
        May 22, 2020
      3. Batty Belfry
        Batty Belfry
        Tis true @|DEKU| I find tutoring to be a true release from the system and a true means of education.
        May 22, 2020
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      Batty Belfry
      20 May 2020 - Sent out about 200 emails to parents for summer tutoring. A few yeses, hope to hear from more. Give help and keep leads.
      1. Ju@n
        [email protected]
        Wow! That's awesome man!
        May 24, 2020
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      2. Batty Belfry
        May 24, 2020
        [email protected] likes this.
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      Batty Belfry
      17 May 2020 - Using BlockerX and AppBlock on my phone to stay productive and on my path. Highly recommended. Stay well all.
      1. |Fenris|, | Nico |, |DEKU| and 2 others like this.
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      Batty Belfry
      13 May 2020 - No. Just say no. To the habit, to the bullshit, to the things that do not make you happy, close to home and far away.
      1. ......., |DEKU|, | Nico | and 3 others like this.
      2. |DEKU|
        |DEKU|
        Not today.
        May 13, 2020
        ......., |Fenris| and Batty Belfry like this.
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      Batty Belfry
      7 May 2020 - My phone is staying off after 5pm. No more leaving it on "just in case." I can beat this.
      1. |DEKU|
        |DEKU|
        You will.
        May 7, 2020
    9. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      5 May 2020 - Having a family of night owls makes it difficult to sleep well. I must resist my phone and keep it off most of the day.
      1. | Nico |, |DEKU|, fg4795 and 2 others like this.
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      Batty Belfry
      2 May 2020 - I turn my phone off and put it in a box at night to build better sleeping habits. What measures do you take?
      1. |Gon|, ......., |Fenris| and 4 others like this.
      2. |DEKU|
        |DEKU|
        Go to bed and wake up at consistent hours. Try to avoid screens 1 hour before bed, or install an app like f.lux. Make sure that you eat your dinner 3 to 4 hours before bed, and don't drink any liquid 2 hours before bed. All those little tips put together will make you sleep better.
        May 2, 2020
      3. Batty Belfry
        Batty Belfry
        I will keep these tips in mind and practice. Thank you @|DEKU|
        May 2, 2020
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      Batty Belfry
      24 April 2020 - Stay in motion. Don't overthink. Keep focus, not for too long on either the wrong or right thing. Rest before doing more.
      1. |DEKU|, eevahnits, fg4795 and 5 others like this.
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      Batty Belfry
      23 April 2020 - Different sensation M to photos. Unsatisfying. If I M without aids, except the imagination, would it still be unsatisfying?
      1. |Gon|, | Nico |, fg4795 and 1 other person like this.
      2. !!Ranger!!
        !!Ranger!!
        No comments
        Apr 23, 2020
        |Gon|, | Nico |, fg4795 and 1 other person like this.
      3. Batty Belfry
        Batty Belfry
        I must evade those aids and replace M to nothing eventually.
        Apr 23, 2020
        |Gon|, | Nico |, fg4795 and 1 other person like this.
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      Batty Belfry
      21 April 2020 - Temptation's alternatives hold me back from the chance to make love with a woman. I'm avoiding videos, but now it's photos.
    14. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      15 April 2020 - I know this is all temporary. My home life limits my better choices. I need to keep what's best for me in front of my eyes.
    15. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      14 April 2020 - First night without phone bedside. Slept better than I can remember. Downsizing to under 100 books. Still going forward.
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      Batty Belfry
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      Batty Belfry
      4 April 2020 - Donation boxes almost full. Need an alarm clock. No more distractions from phone, awake and asleep. Have a healthy April all.
      1. Leashed4good, |DEKU| and | Nico | like this.
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      Batty Belfry
      28 March 2020 - Downsizing, spring cleaning for when I can move. Books have been tricky, but I must make room for the future, for value.
    19. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      25 March 2020 - Broke 80 day streak. Mind feels clear after M, but I have not done so without P. I start again, deleting P from my life.
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      Batty Belfry
      29 February 2020 - No social media for a month. Nice not being in a hurry. Nothing to prove or compare myself to. Newsfeed feeds off you.
      1. quit@porn
        [email protected]
        Yes,,,,, better to compare with oneself nd improve than going for mad race
        Feb 29, 2020
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  • About

    Gender:
    Male
    Birthday:
    Nov 20, 1995 (Age: 24)
    Location:
    United States of America
    Occupation:
    Writer
    Hello NoFap members,

    This is Batty Belfry joining you on the rebooting and retention lifestyle. I started watching pornography since I was 17 and have handled my sexual urges better, but not completely, in my early twenties.

    I recognize that I am attracted to women and for more than just their physique. I have friendships with women and have never had a relationship with a woman. The problem I feel and think I have is that I attract women in a way that has no sexual intentions, even though I am still sexually attracted to women.

    I understand that to know the person first is necessary to starting, building, having, and maintaining a relationship. I understand there is more to life than just sex, but of course, there would be no life without it.

    Humor aside, my circumstances (my conservative, religious, small town upbringing, for example) have taught, if not dictated, my approach to sexuality and relationships.

    My goals for and beyond NoFap are to:

    - Control emotional and physical responses.
    - Balance sexual urges with nonsexual activity.
    - Have meaningful, healthy, not regressive, relationships.

    To achieve these goals, I have written five core values:

    - Validation

    I am living proof that life in me and through me will carry purpose without the approval of others; unless it should make them better to have been inspired or advisory as my witness.

    How I approach my happenings and callings will be discerned by my character and by those who know my character. I choose myself not over another, but in the hope that I can become selfless.

    To the point of precipitation, may I cast rains of my good fortunes, whether it be a downour or a drop, so that it may be absorbed again and be shed once more for the people with and without clouds over their heads.

    Knowing the backs of my hands as well as the bottoms of my feet is my journey. Moving forward while standing still is my destination. Validation begins and ends always with the self.

    - Authenticity

    The true self presents itself through concrete changes in that my aims are not self-defeating. Self-discovery and self-awareness are the pours on the skin of authenticity.

    Being born anew is a constant exercise of the soul imbedded in the words and acts closely woven and to be worn as a diligent wardrobe. I will not only dress the part but will become the part I was made for.

    However, like a wardrobe, authenticity is not without divergence. There are many accessories that on the surface seem disingenuous and gaudy to the beholder, but as the wearer, it is a statement more than fashion only I can wear. Authenticity is the magician without his magic; the trick is to tell and to live the truth.

    - Love

    The matters of the heart think with a self-respecting emotional intelligence. It does not project selfish indulgence or pump empty promises that can only lead to bad blood. True love is a love of the self which translates to a common love for others.

    I hold a caring disposition in fear that no one cares at all and in strength that I still care despite being my own or part of the minority. It is a dangerous thing not to care, for there is no love where there is no care.

    The true exception revolves around self-love, where care must be placed on not only the little things but on the larger than life concerns set out for myself. Loving myself will find love in new places and faces who double the love to be had.

    - Originality

    Inspiration and aspiration, invention and reinvention, are distinct equals in the case of creation. As a creator, I will not rely on derivative platitudes or cluttering cliches as adequate expressions or explanations.

    Rather, the moments where I find lacking will force my unconscious feelings to become conscious thoughts and words for memories in the making.

    My ideas will be my own while accepting their close inspirations and far aspirations. To be original, I must practice while not succumbing to perfection and focus on fulfilling my good intentions and turn them into
    good actions.

    - Routine

    I will not have my hands be made idle. My work will become my play and when need be I will find the necessary separation of the two. I will shape a world of stagnation into one of dedication.

    Time will not be determined by the clock's hands but by the willingness of mine. Seconds or a century, my goals will not bend unlike my mode of operation. How I reach my successes wanes in the shadow of my reach still being done. I have a diligent and flexible work ethic that does not fall into mundanity, but rises through creativity.

    I will meet every day with sights on the next day so that I may say the days before me meant well and the days ahead of me mean better. On my last day, if I should have the company of one, it will have meant my trials and errors amounted to the continuous power of a hopeful routine.

    Thank you for learning more about me, and I look forward to adding more value to an already invaluable community,

    Batty Belfry

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