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Batty Belfry
Last Activity:
May 9, 2024
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Gender:
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Birthday:
Nov 20, 1995 (Age: 28)
Location:
United States of America
Occupation:
Writer

Batty Belfry

Fapstronaut, Male, 28, from United States of America

Almost 4 months straight then stress. Restarting and staying on the good path. 4/18/2024 Apr 18, 2024

Batty Belfry was last seen:
May 9, 2024
    1. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      23 January 2020 - First wet dream this morning, sans P. Climbed a spiral staircase that turned into a vine of fruits. Heard people above.
    2. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      19 January 2020 - Challenging myself to get in front of the camera more for my business. I'm not a smiler, yet. I'm doing what works for me.
    3. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      17 January 2020 - Change your story. Write yourself in a light no one else can see because you're headed where you need to be.
      1. LEPAGE and Deleted Account like this.
    4. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      15 January 2020 - It can be hard to keep your head on your shoulders. Let the good things in your life be your shoulders too.
      1. LEPAGE, Leader of ME and Hello Friend like this.
    5. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      14 January 2020 - Had first dream sans porn influence two days ago. I was people watching and all the people were women with legs for days.
      1. Deleted Account likes this.
    6. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      13 January 2020 - Followed up with recruiter in person. Gave copies of my resume. Should expect a call soon. Show up for what you want.
      1. fg4795 likes this.
      2. Deleted Account
        Deleted Account
        Congrats! Hope you get the job!
        Jan 13, 2020
        Batty Belfry and fg4795 like this.
    7. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      10 January 2020 - New lead is promising; follow up again at the end of the month. Going to see the recruiter to get an answer on Monday.
      1. LEPAGE, Meisterkatze and spaces like this.
    8. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      9 January 2020 - Showcase turned out well. Grateful for the supporters. Talking to a new lead soon.
      1. Meisterkatze likes this.
    9. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      7 January 2020 - Got a much needed haircut. Preparing for an art showcase of my work. Waiting on next recruiter.
      1. Ariel1235 and LEPAGE like this.
    10. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      6 January 2020 - One recruiter said job has been taken. Waiting for second recruiter. Follow up until they stay interested in you.
      1. Deleted Account
        Deleted Account
        consistency is key
        Jan 6, 2020
        Batty Belfry and Sammyforthewin like this.
    11. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      5 January 2020 - Follow-up with recruiters tomorrow. I'm going to land a job for my well-being. Then I can give back as I work.
      1. Deleted Account
        Deleted Account
        Confidence is the strongest weapon of all, go gettem
        Jan 5, 2020
        Batty Belfry and Sammyforthewin like this.
    12. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      4 January 2020 - 364 days is my goal now. Need new balance.
      1. Sammyforthewin likes this.
    13. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      31 December 2019 - The start of a new year and my first resolution: no porn for a year. Best to all.
      1. Protagonist
        Protagonist
        All the very best my man
        Jan 1, 2020
        Sammyforthewin and Batty Belfry like this.
    14. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      28 December 2019 - You will get beyond this. Happy birthday, Dad.
      1. LEPAGE and spaces like this.
    15. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      18 December 2019 - Passed 30 days. Mind and body clear. Shopping and gift-giving done. Cuffing season is overrated. Happy holidays everyone.
    16. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      14 November 2019 - The porn industry doesn't care about your long-term sexual health. They are testing you, so don't take their test.
      1. Deleted Account
        Deleted Account
        They only care about money and destroying everyone life.Nowadays even 10 or 12 years old know about porn and m.This internet era is really dangerous:/
        Nov 14, 2019
    17. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      12 November 2019 - I will get more than a job. I will get a career to be more productive and free from digital distractions. Best to all.
      1. Muphy, LEPAGE, Warrior Within and 3 others like this.
    18. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      8 November 2019 - Setting weekly goals ending on Fridays to keep focus and lose distractions. What keeps you on track? Best to you all.
      1. Deleted Account likes this.
    19. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      6 November 2019 - I know better. I am worth more than this digital pit. I know I can achieve real and true relationships. Work hard people.
      1. Warrior Within likes this.
    20. Batty Belfry
      Batty Belfry
      29 October 2019 - Broke 49 day streak due to stress in work life. Resetting and forgetting to move forward. Youth is a strange time.
      1. You_ll_succed_for_sure
        You_ll_succed_for_sure
        Owwwww !!
        It is a battle, on you have power over stress in work life as an human with power.
        I feel sad for you.
        You can do it.
        Oct 29, 2019
      2. Deleted Account
        Deleted Account
        Go forward. No matter how fast, - just MOVE!
        Oct 29, 2019
      3. Batty Belfry
        Batty Belfry
        Oct 29, 2019
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  • About

    Gender:
    Male
    Birthday:
    Nov 20, 1995 (Age: 28)
    Location:
    United States of America
    Occupation:
    Writer
    Hello NoFap members,

    This is Batty Belfry joining you on the rebooting and retention lifestyle. I started watching pornography since I was 17 and have handled my sexual urges better, but not completely, in my early twenties.

    I recognize that I am attracted to women and for more than just their physique. I have friendships with women and have never had a relationship with a woman. The problem I feel and think I have is that I attract women in a way that has no sexual intentions, even though I am still sexually attracted to women.

    I understand that to know the person first is necessary to starting, building, having, and maintaining a relationship. I understand there is more to life than just sex, but of course, there would be no life without it.

    Humor aside, my circumstances (my conservative, religious, small town upbringing, for example) have taught, if not dictated, my approach to sexuality and relationships.

    My goals for and beyond NoFap are to:

    - Control emotional and physical responses.
    - Balance sexual urges with nonsexual activity.
    - Have meaningful, healthy, not regressive, relationships.

    To achieve these goals, I have written five core values:

    - Validation

    I am living proof that life in me and through me will carry purpose without the approval of others; unless it should make them better to have been inspired or advisory as my witness.

    How I approach my happenings and callings will be discerned by my character and by those who know my character. I choose myself not over another, but in the hope that I can become selfless.

    To the point of precipitation, may I cast rains of my good fortunes, whether it be a downour or a drop, so that it may be absorbed again and be shed once more for the people with and without clouds over their heads.

    Knowing the backs of my hands as well as the bottoms of my feet is my journey. Moving forward while standing still is my destination. Validation begins and ends always with the self.

    - Authenticity

    The true self presents itself through concrete changes in that my aims are not self-defeating. Self-discovery and self-awareness are the pours on the skin of authenticity.

    Being born anew is a constant exercise of the soul imbedded in the words and acts closely woven and to be worn as a diligent wardrobe. I will not only dress the part but will become the part I was made for.

    However, like a wardrobe, authenticity is not without divergence. There are many accessories that on the surface seem disingenuous and gaudy to the beholder, but as the wearer, it is a statement more than fashion only I can wear. Authenticity is the magician without his magic; the trick is to tell and to live the truth.

    - Love

    The matters of the heart think with a self-respecting emotional intelligence. It does not project selfish indulgence or pump empty promises that can only lead to bad blood. True love is a love of the self which translates to a common love for others.

    I hold a caring disposition in fear that no one cares at all and in strength that I still care despite being my own or part of the minority. It is a dangerous thing not to care, for there is no love where there is no care.

    The true exception revolves around self-love, where care must be placed on not only the little things but on the larger than life concerns set out for myself. Loving myself will find love in new places and faces who double the love to be had.

    - Originality

    Inspiration and aspiration, invention and reinvention, are distinct equals in the case of creation. As a creator, I will not rely on derivative platitudes or cluttering cliches as adequate expressions or explanations.

    Rather, the moments where I find lacking will force my unconscious feelings to become conscious thoughts and words for memories in the making.

    My ideas will be my own while accepting their close inspirations and far aspirations. To be original, I must practice while not succumbing to perfection and focus on fulfilling my good intentions and turn them into
    good actions.

    - Routine

    I will not have my hands be made idle. My work will become my play and when need be I will find the necessary separation of the two. I will shape a world of stagnation into one of dedication.

    Time will not be determined by the clock's hands but by the willingness of mine. Seconds or a century, my goals will not bend unlike my mode of operation. How I reach my successes wanes in the shadow of my reach still being done. I have a diligent and flexible work ethic that does not fall into mundanity, but rises through creativity.

    I will meet every day with sights on the next day so that I may say the days before me meant well and the days ahead of me mean better. On my last day, if I should have the company of one, it will have meant my trials and errors amounted to the continuous power of a hopeful routine.

    Thank you for learning more about me, and I look forward to adding more value to an already invaluable community,

    Batty Belfry

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