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    This is a the laziest addiction

    Very well written. My partner and I spoke about this the other day. The fact that it is so easily accessible makes it so hard to overcome. The fact that there’s no “risk” (monetarily, embarrassment, or law enforcement for the most part) involved makes it so easy to remain deep into this...
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    PAs Partner Seeking Advice

    Thank you so much. We talked about it and I told him we can talk about it before he starts. I spoke to another group of PA partners and they said they would talk about boundaries concerning her and their partner’s relationship and so I feel like that’s a vital step for me to feel safe. He’s very...
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    PAs Partner Seeking Advice

    I greatly appreciate this response, thank you. I’m doing a lot of self worth / self appreciation / self love work books. I’m seeing a therapist that specializes in betrayal trauma as well as anxiety and depression for other problems I am facing. I’m doing a lot better compared to our DDay but I...
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    PAs Partner Seeking Advice

    I don’t appreciate your comment and I don’t find it helpful. It might just be one girl but that’s all it takes to make a recovering porn addiction slip. One video, one girl, one time.. etc. You also don’t know how deep he was into the addiction. Please, if you have anything helpful to help me...
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    PAs Partner Seeking Advice

    Good morning all, My partner starts a new job in a couple of weeks. He got to meet his team a few days ago and he works with all men except one singular Asian female. I’m worried and worked up about him working with her and being close proximity all the time, please tell me I’m overreacting...
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    Being bald-dating Young Girls Impossible.

    My prime years? You’re funny, I’m 24 and I’m still in my prime years. I’m not raging at my partner at all, in fact the opposite I’m very supportive of his journey, understanding, and just general kindness. I don’t see where you get “rage” from as I’m being very calm and not being rude, like you...
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    Being bald-dating Young Girls Impossible.

    just because someone smiles at you doesn’t mean they want advances, people are nice - it’s what they do. I would like to point out that being bald makes people look older. There is no way I’m going to believe that a bald man is 18-22, absolutely none.
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    Being bald-dating Young Girls Impossible.

    Just because they are legally adults doesn’t make it morally right. He’s calling us women who are in that age group “girls”, is that not wrong? He wants a GIRL, a girl is a child and a woman is an adult. Next problem I think older women lusting after younger men is just as disgusting. Stay...
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    Netflix Sex Scenes / Q’s for PA

    Well I’ve already seen it once through, rather recently. I’ve been talking about it a lot and he says he wants to watch with me because of how highly I talk about the show. I told him maybe not yet, I don’t think I’m ready for it because it’s riddled with sexual things, it’s got some...
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    Netflix Sex Scenes / Q’s for PA

    He is on this forum, yes. He’s currently taking a break from all surfing, including being here.
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    Netflix Sex Scenes / Q’s for PA

    I definitely want to get to a place where tv / movies aren’t triggering and I’m afraid they are more triggering to me currently than him but he’s been super understanding every step of the way. He allows me to make the calls on what is okay / what isn’t okay and we have open communication...
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    Netflix Sex Scenes / Q’s for PA

    Thank you for this. I understand people are all going through their own things and emotions can be jaded. I also understand that different things need to be worked on for everyone to get to a healthy point in life, not everyone thinks the same nor is ready for tough conversations. I really...
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    Netflix Sex Scenes / Q’s for PA

    Hello! I am a PA partner and I’m looking for answers / help. I want to watch the Magicians with my partner but I know there are a lot of sex scenes / sexual tension / women in scantly dressed clothes. So this led me to thinking - is this safe? - how can we be safe when watching tv shows...
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