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Thank you. He insisted on talking tonight so I let him, and got a big huge reassurance that he doesn’t take any of this seriously. I told him my...
I did it. I told him he can’t stay here. He made arrangements and packed up some of his things and left. I told him he can’t hang around here with...
Thank you. It’s EXTREMELY hard for me but I think I know I HAVE TO stop buckling and start standing my ground or no real change can ever come.
So, I need advice because it’s hard sometimes to keep my head on straight when I have a PA in my ear constantly. It’s been a year and 2 months now...
He stayed late over an hour at work tonight, which I know sometimes happens on a Friday at the end of the month. Things have to get done for...
Part of the agreement for this “final chance” of his to do it himself is that if he fails, we will get our parents involved. I guess the point of...
I am trying my absolute hardest to deal with all of this. By all of this, I guess I specifically mean “the reality that my husband is an actual,...
Thank you for all your words, I really appreciate it.
Regarding the part where you ask why I don’t enforce boundaries, and that enforcing them would be self-love: I have a REALLY hard time putting...
Wouldn’t that be something? If they did self analysis like we did and created a plan, and executed it?
I actually just finished reading Betrayal Bonds for the second time! I’m very familiar with both. Here’s why I think I am betrayal bonded: •The...
How do I do that? Are you the PA? Tell me how I can go about it the right way.
Thank you, Susannah. It saddens me to know that you’ve also gone through this immense pain. Yesterday, I spent all day feeling like I’m somehow...
I just feel so defeated and so stupid and so confused. I’m hurting so badly because I set consequences I can’t follow through on and it makes it...
You’re absolutely right, it is up to me and nobody else can make the decision. I guess it just feels more “right” to have it corroborated. As much...