Recent content by DIYAS1

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Thank you, beautiful knowledge and insight.

Fantastic feedback. Keep up the good fight!

If you are interested in meditation but struggle with it here is a useful guide to changing your thoughts about how to do it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgiIYdQlWpg

Really? For me it just moves to a different phase. From sexual intimacy to non-sexual intimacy...ie. cuddling, kissing, stroking without sexual intent. There is still very much a connection there. Provided of course that there is an intimate connection to start with.

Yes I do. As I have said in another reply after the orgasm has settled I am still ready to continue.

After a non-ejaculatory orgasm settles I am ready to continue. I have never just stopped there and let it be the end. At times I will feel like it could be enough but I am greedy and want more. Why just have one orgasm when you can have more?

Amen.

Stop, pull out. Start pleasuring her/him (whoever your partner is) until your arousal settles. Then go again....repeat until you have had enough.

For me it is a combination of all of the following. 1: Recognising the sensations that orgasm is imminent, 2: Stopping movement and hence further stimulation. 3: Relaxing and breathing through the waves of orgasmic sensation. I have good pelvic floor control and good awareness of sensation...

I do understand that there are different needs for different people. My comment was made with a compassionate tone. Please don't read anything else into it.

It is not less intense. But it is different as you don't get the physical ejaculatory feelings. I am at a point where I still feel the need to go on and have an ejaculation afterward. But if you trained yourself to stop there then you could maintain that non ejaculatory energy. For me good...

Agreed....Sex and love are intertwined and it is important for a healthy relationship with a partner and the world to learn to live in a space of compassion and love.

It is only a "greed for lust" if that is the attitude you carry into your sexual relationship. You can have an enjoyable sexual relationship with a partner from a space of love. Wether this includes orgasm, ejaculation or not.