Dominikfhj

Sorry I don't get what you said?

I am muslim too. Assalamu Aleykum. Brother if you are not praying you need to start praying. Many scholars hold the opinion that the one who does not pray is a disbeliever due to many evidences from Quraan and Sunnah. I know we are all caught in this addiction storm, but I still pray more than 5 times a day.

You have to pray to your master, your creator, the one who gave you everything. You have to pray, regardless of how much you have sinned. We all need to remember one day we will die, and we will be questioned about everything. How little it is that I remember!

Urges mostly come in noon. I am trying to find the trigger but I don't know what it is. I try to stay on nofap forum if urge comes, & it helps.

Most likely cus it's when your most active,and u have seen enough for urges to occur

Not really, I do most of my work in the morning & evening. At noon I watch an episode of my current series, read book, and exercise. Also the nofap forum

It is sort of really go9d and another reason why I put it is because of its longevity

That's true. It's new season is also coming right? I saw some posts few months back on Instagram.

Yeah and hopefully it's a banger

It's been going okay up till now have not has any lapses yet ALHAMDULLILAH

I hope I don't, but I don't think I will inshallah because it's something I have agreed within myself

its great seeing these interesting techniques, keep us updated how it plays out

@{Ananta} thanks,sure will

The best time is now. I used porn all this time as a coping mechanism because my life was miserable in the past, and is still a bit bad, considering everything. I discovered it early (6 months), but it doesn't mean it was easy, especially being 14 at the time, with all the desires flowing but never having a partner to have sex. Just enjoy the fact you're here friend :)

@TheIntelligent yeah bro my addiction did last about 13 years before I found out I was addicted i started at 8 but majority of those years were not like I watched porn everyday or 2 , more like the past 4 years were like that

@Dominikfhj It's truly a curse using this all this time and not knowing that this was causing you harm, but like I said, the best time to stop is now. You could have discovered it very early like me and it would still be hard, but there's always a chance to restart and do things right. Stay positive.

Hang in there. I recently set to myself a progressive goal, if I fail 3 times I'm changing the goal to stop P instead of PM. The thing is that porn is our main enemy, most of the time, for most people here (single) porn is useless. Unlike some websites say, it will not improve your relationship, teach about sex and take your worries away, even for couples it does the exact opposite.

I wrote a lot more than necessary, just avoid porn no matter what and keep going on, improving yourself and moving forward. Don't be afraid to ask for help, there's a difference between what we can do alone and together. Wish you the best.

I feel relieved to have said this worry about PMO.. I was addicted for 10 years.. 8 years of watching but not addicted.. but the worst was during covid . and quarantine.. i lost interest in everything..

You can do it man! Add this to your positive thoughts :)

Thanks bro

Hey bro, long time no see how are you doing

... again bro just know I ain't letting you leave atleast let us know

Just take it one step at a time - it means what? i am asking

Go at you own pace

just know god put love in our heart to share, if the other doesnt want it ,then i guess they go without,none the less you did your job

When you watch like gay porn and your straight and see yourself as straight is most likely cus normal porn doesn't satisfy you anymore you want something more hard-core this why you are on this thread bro we r with you

i rearly watch porn bro most of time i watch sex scenes that too normal i wonder why i think in such way? i cant live with my girl right? so i need to go to god right?

Yeah we are all here for the same purpose to abstain , I will give you the same advice I gave @you_can_UK below(instead of going for like an all or nothing mentality just start with 3 days do that three times then go for 7 days do that twice then work your way up hope that helps)

Yeah sure anything

Hey bro clear your mind out I think instead of going for like an all or nothing mentality just start with 3 days do that three times then go for 7 days do that twice then work your way up hope that helps

i got your back bro

Your progress is not gone. Learn from this relapse :)!

The addiction’s objective is to convince the addict that they’re powerless, but in actuality, it’s dependent upon you for giving it the power it needs to stay in control. Take back the power for yourself. All the power is with you; use it to benefit you and not your addiction.

.....fuck sakes no more fucking relapses again

And am freaking serious this is the last release am going to have(sorry for cursing to much really frustrated) Oh Allah Forgive me

I f*****g feel very much the same.I feel like I am a potato kept in dark cage.