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  1. foryan.lastchance replied to the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    Day 7 Read a lot of material last night before bed about PMO addiction. A lot of the material changed my perspective dramatically about...

    Apr 18, 2024 at 7:42 PM
  2. foryan.lastchance replied to the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    That's also very very true. I guess my view was I didn't want her to suffer from the hurt of knowing anymore. I didn't want the hurt and...

    Apr 18, 2024 at 7:38 PM
  3. foryan.lastchance replied to the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    Thankyou and i really appreciate the support. I too do hope and trust there's a more rewarding and honest life up the road ahead.

    Apr 18, 2024 at 7:36 PM
  4. foryan.lastchance liked ANewFocus's post in the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    The hard part of recovery is changing our beliefs. Our beliefs drive our actions. For me, I consider B movie and P occasionally...

    Apr 18, 2024 at 7:35 PM
  5. foryan.lastchance replied to the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    Day 6.5 Alright one post to wrap the day up. Tomorrow I've got a 90 minute counselling session midday; plus the rest of the day off....

    Apr 18, 2024 at 8:08 AM
  6. foryan.lastchance liked Warfman's post in the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    Make sure you are being fully honest... That's the only way things get better. In your very first posts you say how P isn't an issue,...

    Apr 17, 2024 at 8:57 PM
  7. foryan.lastchance replied to the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    Definitely not... Yea...I agree to that...my only question would it be best if we got a counsellor to mediate the conversation. Wife...

    Apr 17, 2024 at 8:23 PM
  8. foryan.lastchance replied to the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    Day 6.5 Whilst I was walking my dog this morning, for some reason I started getting into this spiral of negative thoughts, thinking...

    Apr 17, 2024 at 7:41 PM
  9. foryan.lastchance replied to the thread My road to being free of Massage parlors/Online-Dating/etc..

    Hey - my two cents on the matter. As hard as it is; even just doing it for yourself. Lay it all out, in all honesty to her or a...

    Apr 17, 2024 at 7:29 PM
  10. foryan.lastchance replied to the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    Yea...I understand... and I'm committed to working through them with her as much as she needs To be honest, I'm still quite...

    Apr 17, 2024 at 7:23 PM
  11. foryan.lastchance replied to the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    I think nights are the hardest; not because of temptation, mainly because they're so quiet. You can put all the netflix and youtube on...

    Apr 17, 2024 at 9:19 AM
  12. foryan.lastchance replied to the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    i agree, i don't think it's viable to progress until both of us are ready.

    Apr 17, 2024 at 2:03 AM
  13. foryan.lastchance liked KevinesKay's post in the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    This would have been my response In order to repair myself, I'm choosing to attend two or three 12-step meetings a week in addition to...

    Apr 16, 2024 at 11:31 PM
  14. foryan.lastchance replied to the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    Day 6 Recalling what happened since 2020; I can now see more clearly why I relapsed 2020 - first instance, significant effort through...

    Apr 16, 2024 at 9:16 PM
  15. foryan.lastchance replied to the thread Caught cheating a 2nd time.

    Day 6. Still slept like crap, woke up with a numb arm. Felt like I barely slept. Whilst walking my dog this morning, I couldn't help...

    Apr 16, 2024 at 7:37 PM