GonTheHunter

willpower, listen to the "no" in the back of your mind, that's your guide.

I'll listen, and also, will scream that "no", to remember me how I need to act.

Thank you too. :)

Love this song

Let me tell you, you are one strong human being- you are incredible but you need to look after yourself, when i say that i don't mean disregard everyone else- I mean start to consider yourself a little bit more, you need to talk to someone to lighten the load, because you are carrying such a lot.

You deserve to enjoy life, yes you've had some storms but that doesn't define who you are where your life is heading. You deserve every happiness + you will get it sweetheart

@bashka I don't know, if I'm not being productive or responsible I feel if my life gonna be the worst thing on Earth. This is blame of my mom, i have sure, but it's mine too for reproving in the school ...

I do not want to be a failure in the future. I want to be a good person and also rich, so I'll study and work, study and work, study and work, that's what I need to do. I only have 16 so my "work" is improve myself.

You're very determined, I'm wishing you the best!

You're welcome, you made me smile with your status, i don't know why it just happened, anyway, hope you doing good, I'm not doing good so I'm a little sad, but also I'm a little happy because it's day 1 now.

Calm down frequently, notice your options (expanding), choose to do something other than the usual harmful thing, take action on that different choice, however small; bear with any uncomfortable sensation that is there. Remember to reward yourself often.
Just some ideas...

I don't know where i start ...

So long as it is empowering, useful and healthy the important thing is to start

Some video games and animes I already watched or played and want to do this one more time, I'll not quote anyone but NoFap sometimes makes me sad, because I need to choose between a not so sexual thing or NoFap by itself. Because even in the not so sexual things I can be stimulated.

Stop doing the things that hurt you... It is indeed this easy. Start something, learn a new language, maybe learn to code, sign up for acrobatic training etc.

If you do not create new habits, you will not break old habits. Now, the ball is in your court, make a decision and stick to it.

I'm studying English but I don't know if this will worth it, I'm reproving in the school and my mom is hurting me with her look and words ...

Don't let it affect you my friend. Idk about how your society works, but as far as school goes, they will never ask anything of you that someone your age cannot understand and answer. Keep this in mind; a school year's curriculum is centered in a way to make the weakest kid pass. (This won't hold true for higher education, mind you) You have the potential in you to pass any exam you get. Don't doubt yourself.

I disagree with foam.
There are certain norms and expectations in society that must be followed if one wishes not to be ostracized. Follow the bare minimum of these regulations; anything other than that is up to you :) Never prioritize anyone above yourself. Remember, you should always be your #1 priority.

Maybe in the past this system works, the pressure schools rule about me make me feel bad and i procrastinate, I can LEARN EVERYTHING of the school in months just watching videos, but i don't do this, why? Pressure, this just makes me enter in a cycle of nervous, and I'll reprove this exam and reprove the entire school year, I'm lost anyways. I'll only focus on my own life, and NoFap, will ignore school now.

Thank you so much, Starru! :)

congratulations on the 5+ days! You can do better this time!

Thank you, Christoph108, I appreciate your support, i really needed this. I'll be offline all day today, except for the case of I need help, so I'll came to here. Anyway, I want to start new year being productive. :)

Sorry about that ,Gon
You're doing well ,keep this spirit of fighting and don't stop even if you stumble or fail sometimes ..and in the end you'll reach your goals (^^) believe that
Have a happy new year ! :")