GonTheHunter

Sorry to see you are in such a slump lately. Listen to @fg4795, he had a lot of sound advice. Soak it up and try again. One of these days when you least expect it something will happen. I believe it as much as I believe you can do it!

Excellent that you have not seen porn , be proud

Keep moving foward irmão! Qualquer coisa, conte comigo!

do you like evangelion ?

@palindromo I never saw Evangelion. How good it is from 0 to 10?

10 +

I'm doing things that can sabotage me. Like watching anime +18, uncensored. That's not ecchi, it's gore, but even gore have nudity.

I want to separate nudity from sexual desires, and don't exist another way to do it from just seeing it (nakedness). Well, I'll return to the studies.

@palindromo I noticed your last status was a motivational thing about Monday, I thank you for this because today I'm studying and reading. If I was watching porn, social media and anything like this I probably would be so sad right now, but I'll not stay strong all the time...

And in the point I'll most need to be strong, I fail, I have no control on extreme situation. I just... act.

i relapse and fail too, but it is in the natural process of reboot. Just don't porn, i know at your age is more difficoult , sixteen are stressful . Just be pride to not stop trying,

@MONSTER MONK You're right, today I'm more patient and happy, my mind is clear. I can tell with sure that you're right, when I'm in one of these "giving up" moments, nothing bring me back to reality.

I just want to stay away from everything for a moment... Because seems like everything is bad. It's not, It's just me, wanting to reach something hard and long like NoFap in one day.

If I keep thinking on stay away of the desires, I'm indirectly thinking on the desires, and it will make me relapse, it's important to redirect the mind to another place, not to say "no". Say that "no" in your head just make the desires more stronger.

It's like an alcoholic with a beer in the hands saying "no, I'll not drink this". We know what will happens 5 seconds later...

So I made some goals for me, such as: learn English, learn programming (that I love), continue school and continue self-improvement. Are not exactly these I said but that's the focus.

Viewing now, porn helped me a lot on that time, but now it's just a distraction that are making me procrastinate and lost energy. Each day that I do this I feel tired and procrastinate more than normal.

So I do my best to stay away from porn and MO, but that's not enough and I relapse in the day 3 or less. That's why I'm thinking my goals are bullshit. In the past, my "friends" was making me sad, now NoFap is making me sad, making me deny pleasure.

@fg4795 @josbo21 How can I continue with many failures in the same day or less? My streak never reach where I want to reach, and it's only my blame. That's why I always think about leave here, seems like there's something wrong on me...

Here it does not matter anything how many times you relapse. What matters is how many times are you able to step up and forget PMO and in consequence, have a better life.

When the plan for the goal fail, change the plan not the goal

Don't allow the mistake(s) to slow you down. Your amount of days has reset but your progress is still growing.

I'll talk with my family. There is no logic reason to do it.

No panic Gon, it's day 3 and you are making progress slowly... Everything will be fine if you make it be fine. You made your lucky.

ditto @GonTheHunter :D thank you!

Thanks from me also :)

Thanks for the likes little brother !

A little fine. Thank you for asking, I'm having problems that every student have and that every young person have, and I say that I want to change the world... And you?

Yes , I have such problems as well so it's not strange .. I'm doing good :)
Stay safe.