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DEKU I don't want any single woman and I don't need them. I don't need any superficial ideology around me to feel worthy. I hate pre-expectations to a specific lifepartner. I hate it when people do this. This is so jugdmental In a world of lies. Pre-expectations is another word for dishonesty for me.

Raven King True. If a man can't live alone and be satisfied with his life he is obviously needy and lost at the same time. This is what men should fight against it!

Get behind me Satan I can't talk about this topic what truly is in my mind without that people taking it as an insult. There is no democracy in free speech if you trying to criticise a specific gender. But I will talk about on another platform I guess.

Difficult but not impossible.

Shedernatinus the only good aspect is that I can easily switch from masturbation every 2nd day to every 2nd week. Of course I won't give up. Maybe woman are handling it with more ease than man.

No we don't handle it any easier. Men didn't have the same intensity of inhibations toward porn and masturbation. And because of this many started this PMO cycle early in their lives. But for us, it was in middle to late adolescence.

Time to talk the truth to them.

Hold strong, my friend. This phase will pass eventually.

attractive men tend to be arrogant. thinking their physical appeal is a free-pass to behave like they want with women. So, it is not surprising that women exchange them with chubbier, more humble men

also this applies to women as well. In general people who feel they are attractive tend to be entiteled to a special treatement.

What I meant to say is that being a virgin can be very wise and valuable.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M6QQm6VtOAA

I find this video so honest and funny https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThynLccDWcQ

White Silence is Gem

Now obviously you don't have to keep on distracting yourself. You will eventually get used to urges once you pass 100 days.

I am glad you are able to detach yourself from unnatural acts better than before. It makes sense if you look upon it this way; the more you watch a content, the more 'normal' it seems to your brain. The opposite is true as well. I hope you will be able to progress more on this particular issue.

Don't feel hopeless about your situation right now, surely you can get through this 14-30 th day period. And you need to be patient, even though you have a good reason to avoid relationships atm there must be light at the end of the tunnel.

Believe whatever you want. Congrats on one week.

It is good that you reached one week. I can relate to your views on love-relationships. Nowdays it's rare to find sincere individuals who truly know how to love and accept all the consequences.

it will pass. Give it time and stay patient.

Yeah I will. It is probably the aftereffect of the last masturbation session

Yes I think so.

I really doubt modern society's happiness can reach out of social media. It's superficial and artificial.
If you rely solely on what your eyes perceive you will certainly make a fool out of your mind.

I think it applies to men as well.

What is happening is that your brain spent too much time consuming these type of P content. The most important matter is to draw a strong moral line between what should and shouldn't be done. Don't panic, it will pass in a few hours. You will make it.

she-dernatinus I agree. Unfortunately I've failed today on Day 19. You are right about the issue that my brain spent too much time with those 2 contents. My main problem was that I will feel like shit like a looser if I never have sex in my life and I gave in to these thoughts during my crisis time between Day 14 and Now. Letting go is still hard.

Thank you Osl0 for your recommandation. Yes I know this website. I have the PDF data from the book Your brain on porn and I have read some articles about it. I know that NoFap NoPMO is the truth. The hard thing is the realization to suceed this. Maybe I should give up the need for woman, Maybe I should give up the need for Sex for the rest of my life to be free. I begin to think sex negative.

I have recently suceeded my second biggest streak of 29 Days. Before that (half a year ago I've reached 30 days). But I failed again. I've made an excuse to watch woman with hijab on instagram and I fapped to it. It was a video from a sex scene and I thought it was a rape video from the news. My curiosity killed me again. It was simply wrong to even use one time social media. But other than that I am okay.

I am 1 year older now (27) and I am still sad that I have reached nothing in life. Not even this god damn NoFAP thing. You know....I am so sad sometimes. Being alone and having no girlfriend. Maybe it is better that way, who knows. They would reject me anyway.

Using a prostutute is "realized porn". Bad idea.

So whats the difference, having sex with a girlfriend/wife or having sex with a prostitute? In both ways you are releasing semen, in both ways you will have high dopamine shocks in your brain. People can be sex addicted as well, how will you control this or how will you know this that you and your partner are sex addicts?

There is a connection of love with your girlfriend/wife while there is only a mere connection of lust with a prostitute.

I am wondering why shedernatinus has deleted her account? Do any moderators know why?