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Hello @Lostmyspark, First I want to say, I am so sorry you've gone through all of this! Betrayal trauma is one of the most difficult things...
Welcome! No worries about your age. My husband knew he was an addict for decades, but he didn't take it seriously until he was about 43. Now...
@NeverEnuff, I hear your sadness and pain... waiting faithfully only to feel rejected. OUCH!!! I'd be saying the same as you if I were in your...
@Real Roboin, I have to disagree with ooo123, whose approach can work sometimes, but I have to say, it's very rare when a guy is truly addicted....
Hello @blue is everywhere, Thank you for being so vulnerable. You wrote: Here's what the therapists said in my Betrayal Trauma Training:...
Nope, total fake! My husband got one of those. The reason he knew it was a fake is because they said, "I recorded you through the cameras on...
Oh, sweet one! I am sooo sorry you are going through this!!! It's one thing to find out about it. It's another thing to have tasted the great...
@Anastasia421, I'm not a porn addict, but I have lived with one for over 25 years, (and have been researching the issue for that many years as...
While I don't believe where the article said, "There is nothing the victim of any abuser can do to diminish or end the abuse except to remove...
Oh, @Louielou, I am so sorry this has happened. My husband and I work with couples going through this, and I've seen this pattern enough to know...
Hmmm... to answer your title, I don't think I would ever date an impotent man. My sex drive is a bit too high for that. But the second question...
@Warrior and seeker of TRUTH, This is what I've seen with the women I've spoken with--and in my own recovering years with my husband's addiction:...
Hey @Lostneverland, Thanks for the update (I wrote the last private message before reading this, and I have to be honest, when I said they...
Forgot to get out here and CELEBRATE my @jfromcr 's 9th year sober. So proud of you, Jay! Let's go for Ten!
BUT when it comes to believing he could love you, here's something that might be helpful to know: Because men's brains are more like apartments...
