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Recent Content by Lostneverland

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    It's not the rupture, it's how we mend it

    Very well written and I agree. Thank you
    Post by: Lostneverland, Aug 9, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Leaving the Hive

    I think you’re doing great . Just go easy on yourself...life through curveballs , so try not to be concerned about how things will or won’t turn...
    Post by: Lostneverland, Aug 6, 2019 in forum: Significant Other Journals
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    Leaving the Hive

    Hallelujah...you go girl...you sound so empowered...right on
    Post by: Lostneverland, Aug 4, 2019 in forum: Significant Other Journals
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    Leaving the Hive

    Yup I hear ya. I asked an addict what is the quickest way to deal with someone who has an addiction. He said give them more of what they are...
    Post by: Lostneverland, Aug 2, 2019 in forum: Significant Other Journals
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    Leaving the Hive

    Yup, it’s a mind blowing , a life altering hidden addiction that creates so much turmoil , anxiety, hyper-vigilance,anger and deep pain. I...
    Post by: Lostneverland, Jul 31, 2019 in forum: Significant Other Journals
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    Yet Another Porn Widow (my journey)

    Ooch...that must have hurt to hear your sisters say he doesn’t love you. I believe he doesn’t love himself therefore he is unable to love anyone...
    Post by: Lostneverland, Jul 27, 2019 in forum: Significant Other Journals
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    Regrets. Do something before it is too late.

    So prove it to her...rise to the challenge , do everything and anything possible to gain her trust and support. If you want forgiveness,...
    Post by: Lostneverland, Jul 27, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Susannah's Going to Stop Trying to Control Things .....Tomorrow

    Isn’t that the whole thing...connection verses control...attachment verses detachment..love verses hate...acceptance verses anxiety. Susannah I...
    Post by: Lostneverland, Jul 27, 2019 in forum: Significant Other Journals
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    My SO journal

    Ya it’s tough isn’t it. For me it’s like my feelings for him were crystal clear, now my feelings are murky and dark, with periodic lightness. This...
    Post by: Lostneverland, Jul 26, 2019 in forum: Significant Other Journals
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    Half way

    Hey I hear ya loud and clear...and I bet the other SOs do too. I happened to meet a woman today, who started talking with me...soon she just broke...
    Post by: Lostneverland, Jul 25, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Support for young SO's with children feeling suicidal, overwhelmed, alone

    Excellent post...well written
    Post by: Lostneverland, Jul 25, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Half way

    I agree , decide what is important to you and for you. Put your needs first and foremost. The addict doesn’t know right from left at this point....
    Post by: Lostneverland, Jul 25, 2019 in forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    Leaving the Hive

    Well...when my PA through his temper tantrum...I said “sober up, clean up and grow the f*ck up, you’re almost 50yrs old. Then he ran away . I’ve...
    Post by: Lostneverland, Jul 21, 2019 in forum: Significant Other Journals
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    Yet Another Porn Widow (my journey)

    Queen Bee you are absolutely correct.
    Post by: Lostneverland, Jul 21, 2019 in forum: Significant Other Journals