Louielou
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Feb 15, 1971 (Age: 49)
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Hospitality

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Louielou

Fapstronaut, Female, 49, from Australia

I’m the partner of a pornography addict. Feb 4, 2020

Louielou was last seen:
May 25, 2020
    1. don'tlookbackinanger
      don'tlookbackinanger
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      2. Louielou
        Louielou
        Do most porn addicts leave their families and never tell the truth,
        I feel so heart broken and dead inside
        Feb 4, 2020
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      3. don'tlookbackinanger
        don'tlookbackinanger
        i believe there is always hope.
        Feb 4, 2020
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    2. don'tlookbackinanger
      don'tlookbackinanger
      the fact that he won't talk about it or admit it may hint towards his own guilt towards the habit. i told my mother about my habit after 6 years of hiding because i'd fear she'd be ashamed and leave me. what have you tried up till now.
      1. Louielou
        Louielou
        Talking to him, counselling, talking with our male church pastor,
        I’ve tried saying we can get help together
        I’m so broken , I’ve never felt so unlovable, unwanted in my life.
        He has always refused to answer my questions. I have asked him to be open and honest so we can work together but he continues to lie, hide and keep secrets. He left me last night
        Feb 4, 2020
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    3. Louielou
      Louielou
      I’m the partner of a pornography addict.
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      2. Louielou
        Louielou
        What are you or have you done about it?
        Feb 4, 2020
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    4. Louielou
      Louielou
      Need support as my husband is a porn addict and won’t talk about it or admit it. The lies and deceit are killing me.
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    Gender:
    Female
    Birthday:
    Feb 15, 1971 (Age: 49)
    Location:
    Australia
    Occupation:
    Hospitality
    I’m desperately needing some help, support and guidance.
    I believe my husband had a lust and porn addiction but even though I find evidence, he denied it and lies. He lies even when the truth is not so bad. He has an excuse, reason or simply says “I don’t know” to any question I ask him regarding images of woman and porn use.
    We installed an app to stop him looking at naked woman and somehow he has gotten around it as I found porn links in settings in his phone. He has been sent ( over the years) pics of naked woman and the latest one looked under age though she was wearing clothes. He told me he would be honest with me but obviously nothing has changed.
    He has never answered my questions and says I’m making a big deal over nothing.
    Last night after finding he’s been doing it again, when I confronted him with the evidence he accused me of lying. He kept asking me if I want him to leave and I said I cannot go through this again so he packed his car and left me and his children without saying goodbye.
    I’ve been getting counseling but not once has he gone, not once has he been honest with me. I have been left with no answers and we are married 24 years in November. He told me he had only started a couple of years ago and only did it a couple of times but I don’t believe him. My world has been torn apart and I cannot make sense of anything that is happening other than his desire to use porn and lie is stronger than his desire to be honest and stop using.
    I really need some feedback that supports me not blames me.
    My heart and trust are broken.