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@Mrs.J , @Jagliana I agree with both of you 100% about both problems. You've pinpointed experiences very relevant to my life at this exact moment!
These are wise words. Thank you for being so generous with your thoughts and experiences!
I think a lot of us are in this boat. At some level, he needs to decide what is appropriate and what is not. I can't be the 24/7 censor, nor do I...
Thank you so much for your response. You have shared a lot here that have given me much that is positive and helpful to think about. I let my SO...
The relapse (which was looking at P, not PMO), happened when I was traveling for work. I think it isn't so much excuses about my behavior as...
Right now, he is not using porn or engaging in any PMO or MO. He has said that as long as we are together, working on our relationship and...
I'm going to agree with what @ukbritishbloke wrote here. The most important thing is for your SO to work on his relationship with you, and get...
I'm following up here because I spoke with my therapist about these pre-formed narratives that my SO has about me. She said they both show that my...
I agree. That's why I was so upset. I thought we had moved past this. His therapist knows about his addiction and has offered some very supportive...
He has two pre-formed narratives about me that are very damaging. One is that I am censorious and puritanical and have very rigid ideas about what...
@AnonymousAnnaXOXO , @TinaK Thank you both for replying. He's flipping it back on me. I'm apparently "cruel and manipulative" for crying when he...
Thank you for your reply @AnonymousAnnaXOXO I really appreciate your thoughtful response. I wish we could just cut something out that would be a...
Hi Everyone, This is really more of a rant and a need to vent on my part. My husband and I have been making really good progress lately. With the...
I also have not forgiven. I honestly don't know if I can or when I will.
