@Jpr To be honest, I was asking myself the same question and I just couldn't believe it. The reasons for the breakup over a year ago was because she used to gaslight me a lot, falsely accuse me of cheating when I have never done that, attack me verbally whenever she's upset, she never unblocked...
@Toni7 It's not that I don't want to be rude (believe me, 'cause I want to), it's just that I need to figure out how. And you're right, it is bad to be nice sometimes.
Yup, she did. And I was doing perfectly fine without her for 13½ months as I was recovering from heartbreaks and depression. Now I feel forced to deal with this again.