Exodus Chapter 14. The LORD Jesus Christ is my salvation.
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I think Carl Jung said it best - If you don't decide who you are then the world will decide for you. So, decide who you are.
Everything starts with action. You get confidence and self-esteem by doing esteemable and good things. Competence.
Always remember that you have a choice. This is extremely important. Always remember that you have a choice.
The lesson of NoFap is this - we are not doing things for ourselves or making things about ourselves. We are here for one another. Not for ourselves. That is the most important take away of NoFap.
NoFap is asking us one question - What kind of human being are you? Are you a good person or are you a bad person? Are you a slave to your desires? And who you are as a person always depends on what you do for others, not for yourself. At least that is what I have learnt.
Chasing after women and sex is dangerous path. NoFap will only work if you give the idea of sexual immorality.
Our actions come back to us. That is why, what you do is so important. Look at your everyday actions. Are you actually consciously working on something? What kind of person are you behind closed doors? What kind of works or actions do you do every day?
Pornography and Masturbation are bad things.
Always ask yourself - why am I doing what I am doing? Once you confront your addiction with that question, it loses its power.
(1) There is good and there is evil. You naturally go towards that which is good and stay away from that which is evil or bad. The reason why it is so difficult to fight an addiction is because it has hijacked your sense of good and evil/bad to make you think that the addiction is a good thing which it isn't.
Everything we do comes back to us in one form or the other. So, care about what you do to yourself and others. Care about your actions.
(1) We are judged based on our actions, not our intentions, not our thoughts. Not our feelings. We are judged by what we do, and the works that we do. Nothing else. My whole life I thought it was just about being a better person - and that matters. But it all boils down to what you do and the works you perform.
(1) It is better to fight than do nothing at all. Even if you lose, you still get something and grow - and that is how you eventually win. Fight and fight and fight and fight with all of your heart and strength.
You are not trying to improve yourself. That is not how change happens. Change happens through work - the value that you put into people's lives and the world to make things and people better. That is how you get things - not by improving yourself. Which is masturbation, ironically enough.
(1) Don't seek happiness in the world. Participate in the world but the world is not designed to give you happiness.
(1) Everything is gained through work and service - What is work - work is putting value into the world to make things and people better. Remember attitude is everything. People approach this in their minds as trying to make themselves better or trying to resist the urges.
Do everything in your power to fight for yourself, your loved one's and your children and family. Do whatever it takes. Fight everything and anything that stands in the way of your wellbeing and loving yourself and those you care about. Fight.
You have to have an identity, an ego or a sense of self. Something that only you can decide that acts like a compass determining how you behave in the outside world and allows you to balance your responsibilities and duties (superego) with your desires (id).
We are always judged by our actions. Always by our actions and our works - the value we put into the world.
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