Recent content by Peace467

Hi all, I was following this thread but after the date didn’t have time to update it (working away from home this week). I just want to say thanks for all the kind and helpful advice, I’ve been keeping it in mind :)! It went really well! Dinner ended but then we went from bar to bar until 2pm...

So I firstly want to say that this is a bit of a success story, but I am also a bit lost so I was looking for some advice. I am over 2 months PMO free and this is my longest streak ever. It’s been an amazing period, I’ve connected with people better and life is good! I would never be in this...

What have you tried so far? How far did you get with these things?

Ive lied to myself so much over the past few months. Be true to yourself, lying gets you nowhere! Rot stops today.

Building willpower: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/good-thinking/201306/how-boost-your-willpower

Struggaling to find ways to relax and release stress atm :/

Sefl criticism is killed me at the moment ><

So for a full story check out my journal. In reality I have been trying to reduce PMO for the last 7 years but only been serious for the last 3/4. I didnt know it was a sin until 18 and before then watched almost daily for several years (i bought an ipod touch pritty much on release for this...

Honestly? For me Yes. I would say that PMO numbed me to my feeling and emotions / my attraction for girls, if I ever felt lonely I went to PMO. Towards the start of my nofap journey, I couldnt look girls in the eye easily beucase of shame, and I definatly couldnt respect them properly for...

Want do you mean? The key to nofap / addiction is by investing in close friendships and relasionships, being happy with where you are going and having the perseverance, commitment and courage to get there. Its not a race, but a marathon. Be mindful on where you are but always look to where you...

Great advice in this thread, but also remeber that its not all on you to make conversation. Conversation going dry is as much of a reflection on her as you, if shes not also willing to put in 50% of the effort to keep it going, then their is not much you can do. If it doesnt work out, its...