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PotentLife
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PotentLife

Fapstronaut, Male, 52, from Upstate New York

If you dive deep enough into experiencing a "craving" you'll see that it simultaneously is nothing at all and anything you like. Nov 6, 2023

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    1. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Resisted temptation and that hopeless "Won't these fantasies ever go away?" feeling last night. Today feels fresh, open with possibilities.
      1. transmute, KaiserKhan786 and Saggy like this.
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      3. transmute
        transmute
        Was torn between sublimation or transmutation. The concepts are certainly interchangeable. Went with transmute as I liked the simplicity of the phonetics.
        May 19, 2015
      4. PotentLife
        PotentLife
        I like it, too, because it has to do with changing the shape of things, like changing the shape of your life like clay. Imagine transmuting from an average joe into a billionaire superstar! ;) Or, the second definition in the Google dictionary: subject (base metals) to alchemical transmutation. ie. "the quest to transmute lead into gold."
        May 19, 2015
      5. transmute
        transmute
        Tbh, I started following you as your username caught my eye and struck a chord in my mind, one can expect to live a very potent life if they can practice sexual transmutation :)
        May 20, 2015
    2. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Feeling amazingly comfortable in my own skin.
      1. transmute, KaiserKhan786 and headedup like this.
    3. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Instead of resisting, flowing with fear of rejection allows me to flush it out of my system promptly and refocus on my goals like lightning.
    4. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Feeling better. Mojo up. I can imagine going another 44 days as easily or easier than I did this last 44. Truly grateful for these forums.
      1. Kurapika likes this.
    5. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Awoke from sound sleep and went straight to P. No MO. 2nd time this happened since starting. Now redirecting wonky feelings. Rebuilding.
    6. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      I've got to remember that the pain and temptation is not new pain and temptation. It's the old being released. I'll let it go on its way.
      1. diamondboi
        diamondboi
        just remember this is your addiction to dopamine that wants you to relapse, not true libido. The type of butterfly, gittery, and heavy breathing feeling you get around a hot women. It's a porn induced libido. DONT GIVE IN
        Apr 30, 2015
      2. PotentLife
        PotentLife
        Ok, bud. Wise words. I'll take your advice.
        Apr 30, 2015
    7. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Imagine every second you abstain as another penny to spend as you choose. That's an extra $6048 per week. Mmmm. What would you buy?
      1. Anne-Dauphine
        Anne-Dauphine
        Omg, a Lamborghini, a flat in East New York, and my idols to sing me a song. If only it was true
        Apr 29, 2015
      2. PotentLife
        PotentLife
        That is really sweet, Ann-Dauphine. I think there's a way to make it true, the way a change of perspective tends to change one's behavior and one's results.
        Apr 29, 2015
    8. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      I feel like a guy who's walking away from a plane crash perfectly fine. "Am I really alive?" 39 days of no MO is such an outlier for me.
      1. KaiserKhan786 likes this.
      2. LiveAnAwesomeLife
        LiveAnAwesomeLife
        Congrats man... you're an great Inspirer!
        Apr 29, 2015
      3. PotentLife
        PotentLife
        Thanks, buddy. Wishing you a speedy recovery and endless more benefits!
        Apr 30, 2015
    9. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      This horrible pain of rejection is just guiding me (unerringly) to the next breathtaking mountain to climb.
      1. Philip1990
        Philip1990
        i get the toughest urges after rejection...i feel with you brother. but dont bow before this PMO shit!
        Apr 28, 2015
      2. PotentLife
        PotentLife
        Good advice, thanks, bro! No more bowing down to that crap! No way!
        Apr 28, 2015
    10. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Had a dream I relapsed and wouldn't tell anybody or reset my counter. Amazed to wake up and realize it didn't really happen.
      1. Iwillsucceedthis and Fapsman like this.
      2. Iwillsucceedthis
        Iwillsucceedthis
        Happened to me as well, you feel really guilty for a moment but, it is like redemption
        Apr 28, 2015
      3. PotentLife
        PotentLife
        Haha! Yes! Redemption!
        Apr 28, 2015
    11. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      My temptations are not me. My thoughts are not me. I belong to myself. Thoughts and temptations belong to themselves.
      1. rodisport and LiveAnAwesomeLife like this.
    12. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Day 37 no M; 27 no P. Self-confidence rising. Feeling more debonair and hardy. If I can, you can, and much, much more!
      1. Darq
        Darq
        Congratulation u inspire me
        Apr 27, 2015
      2. PotentLife
        PotentLife
        Thanks, Darq! I appreciate that!
        Apr 28, 2015
    13. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Have courage, friends. This challenge may bear more fruit than you could have ever imagined.
      1. LiveAnAwesomeLife
        LiveAnAwesomeLife
        true bro.
        Apr 25, 2015
      2. Challenge Ready
        Challenge Ready
        Your posts are motivating me to forge forward, and not lose faith in the great vision I have for my life.
        Apr 25, 2015
      3. PotentLife
        PotentLife
        Thanks, guys! It means so much to read these comments.
        Apr 28, 2015
    14. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Boss told me this evening that he's seen a 180-degree change for the better in me in the last 2 months - hope for those of you struggling.
      1. The_Mickster, Applesauce and Haggis like this.
      2. Applesauce
        Applesauce
        Thanks man, looks like you're doing pretty well yourself. Keep it up! ;)
        Apr 25, 2015
      3. PotentLife
        PotentLife
        Appreciate that, Applesauce! You too, bud!
        Apr 28, 2015
    15. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      33 days of no M seemed impossible 33 days ago. Well, it's a big, whopping reality now. Every day I'm breaking new ground.
      1. Kurapika and 691015 like this.
    16. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      I would so much rather transform pain by facing it than running from it and remaining stunted by PMO.
    17. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Last night: booming thunderstorm and barbs of sweet temptation that seemed endless in their allure. I held fast. Today: bright gray peace.
    18. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Exercising more than I have in 20 years. Upbeat, even-keel mood. Memory improved. Alert, present-tense, happy to serve. We're doing it!
    19. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      Day 27 no M; day 17 no P: reality seems to be reassembling itself according to an astonishing master plan.
    20. PotentLife
      PotentLife
      About to hit 27 days no MO. This might be the longest I've ever gone. Thanks to you all!
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    Gender:
    Male
    Birthday:
    Feb 26, 1972 (Age: 52)
    Location:
    Upstate New York
    Occupation:
    Personal Caregiver, Artist
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    Philanthropy, creativity, heuristics, questioning the supposedly obvious, art, film, literature, cinema, travel, comedy, cooking, camping, cycling, guitar, piano.

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