Hey Psalm27:1 my light Four years ago you posted in a post that your husband, had nail deformation. was it like nail clubbing? You said in that post that the symptoms disappeared or were alleviated after the Nofap. Can you be specific about this?
No, not clubbing. Severe horizontal ridging. I’ll send a sample picture in pm. It’s crazy because his nails are perfectly fine now.
A quick message to say thank you for your recent kind words, and wishing all the best to you and your husband. I hope and pray he makes a full recovery.
Hi - just popping in to say thanks for taking the time to respond to my newbie posts. This is a really weird and overwhelming place to find myself, and your kindness is like a light in a storm. Thanks again.
Hi there I just discovered this site n signed my husband up. But scrolling the forum i found a comment from u n ur story is similar to mine. Fnding out his dirty secret. So I just thought I'd make my own account so I could reach out n ask if we could talk or anything.
If I remember correctly, you mentioned that your husband did a 90 day no pmo reboot. My question is, did you experience more attraction for him when he quit pmo? If so, why was he more attractive to you? For example, was he more masculine, was he more dominant, did he become more handsome etc?
He is much more attractive. His voice got deeper, he grew more hair, his jaw line got stronger. Ironically, women in general started paying more attention to him. He’s more masculine in that he doesn’t act like a child anymore. He takes responsibility and over all way more mature.
@Hunter007, I notice this is similar to a post you made on @Cirilla's profile, and yet you have no introductory posts in 'New to NoFap' nor a journal on these forums. You will not be able to quit porn if you expect the women here to do all the work for you. You need to put real tangible effort into your own recovery.
Thank you so much. Unfortunately it came at great cost. I love your sense of humor! Fight to be clean it’s worth it. I think our world is losing a lot of great people to this addiction. It’s so new and normalized. Be the man that is different! I’m rooting and praying for all of you dealing with this.
Thx for your honest answer again. That really helped a lot. I wish you success with you and your husband.
Thank you! I’ve been through this for decades, years of counseling and I feel that if I can help others navigate through it, then I’m doing what I wished someone had been there to do for me. I empathize with both you and your wife. Since personal touch is my primary love language, I understand your need and desire for it. Since I’m a betrayed wife, I get your wife’s trauma.
I mostly pop on and off of this forum. I don’t know what I’d write, other than responding to others. I post from my phone, so try to keep my responses short. I’m so bad with technology that I don’t even understand how you guys post on my profile! Lol.
May I pls help you with that. To post on someone's profile one can click over his or her profile picture or user name >'profile page' > at the top there will be 'write something' that's it. Have a great day!
It's my prayer that you succeed in the new year & 2020 is your year to do just that... Blessings to you.... Ps 139...R.
