You're right. It goes much more quickly and is easily if you're not anticipating success or failure all the time. Just focusing on what needs to be done (managing your thoughts) is best. My last streak was best when I didn't post every single day.
Well, I'm resetting my counter today to reflect that I relapsed many weeks ago. At the time I was too ashamed to deal with it. I gave up trying to diligently fight this and then I started giving myself what I called "grace" to do whatever I wanted. That lead into forgetting about all that I...
Day 51
The habit is broken. I would say I'm done but there are people on here who are so much more committed than just 51 days in, so I will continue on. This site is like some sort of bomb that disrupts the momentum of the PMO habit. Before coming here I had attempted to stop so many times...
Man, our brains will come up with anything to justify fapping. The last time I relapsed mine told me fapping was ok because I just had sex the day before so as long as I thought about my wife it would be like we were having sex still...sorry but that just isn't true brain! I still went through...
Day 32
Edging needs to stop. Had a close call yesterday. I'll stay away from my phone as much as possible while alone. No P or M. Just arousing myself unnecessarily.
Day 31
Just checking in. I'm noticing that I now deal with almost everything exclusively in my head. What I mean is my thoughts are as far as anything gets. For example I was on the train and because just seeing an attractive woman can get me to stare and think about M later, I stop myself from...
Day 8 is probably about the time the blue-balls became unbearable for me as well, it will subside. This happened especially the first time, before I came to this site, I think because of the frequency of M before trying to stop. I think it's like a momentum thing. You fap and fap and fap and...