I have the exact same problem, but I think it has to do with the level of focus you give to your partner if your mind is somewhere else it becomes hard to be more present and actually feel the moment, try to spend more time with her without having sex just intimacy, you’ll begin to desire her...
I think it’s best to abstain completely after some time you’ll feel better. This used to happen to me exactly a week after I quit PMO and I would relapse. After a few days you will feel better
I know this might sound very crazy, and somehow going against the morals that have been built around these societies. I have read a lot of posts from men with similar issues as mine mostly the flatline and most men during this phase aren’t usually intimate with their partners and somehow even...