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Today is 331 (11 months) no P and 244 (8 mos) no M. Amazing - I’m so grateful to this site!

There’s also a thing called the “three second rule” - it mostly works. Best thing is to try to shut it of. That said I was in NYC yesterday and was utterly trigger by a pair of braless breasts w protruding eraser nipples that GOT MY ATTENTION. Almost slipped last night. Almost slipped - but I...

284 days no P; 197 no M. I’m happily astounded.

Stay with it, your brain is simply rebooting.

Over 7 mos. no P w one M slip (not to P; so 4 mos). I’m in danger of slipping due to work stress and looking at Instagram. This stops now.

Today marks 202 days no P and 115 days no M. I’m having a monogamy slip but otherwise staying sober.

Today is 5 months no P; 2 months no M.

Day 56 No M - Day 144 no P. So glad I did this reboot!

Yep. We just had a good sober conversation. I laid out the boundaries - and I made sure he was heard.

I just don’t want to be raged at - not rage at him - in my own home.

My thing is that it’s MY HOUSE. He’s not a roommate. I own the house. You can’t jump down my throat in my own house.

Pretty simple - he’s been dealing w leukemia; me w non Hodgkin lymphoma - both are treatable; we both work full time

i have a tenant who is also a friend. He’s lived downstairs for three years. We had a blow out argument last Sunday ... long story short: he kinda jumped down my throat, I got triggered and we both started screaming at each other. Not good. I was “hung over” for two days over this and we have...

Day 45 ... feel good ... nervous about seeing my gf Thur, Fri and Sat but it will be fine.