sohardrn
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sohardrn

Fapstronaut, Male, from USA

accept the fear that she might reject you when asked. let yourself enjoy budding relationships regardless. make the time to enjoy this. Sep 7, 2024

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    1. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      I keep analyzing wat I want in a girl and the girls I’m attracted to for too long before asking them out. Results in anxiety & overthinking.
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    2. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      DONE WITH CALCULUS FOREVER!!
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    3. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Masturbated to orgasm twice in one day a few weeks ago, been fine ever since. Wanted to do porn but something stopped me. I stopped me.
      1. Wizardrabbit and Don80 like this.
    4. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Pretty sure it’s been 2 years since I started taking this NoFap thing seriously. I’ve come a long way.
    5. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      I didn’t realize it was NNN until just now LOL
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    6. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Streaks are bogus. Just stop jacking off. If you screw up, make a change in your behaviors, environment, or yourself.
    7. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Not resetting the counter, but changing it to abstaining from porn as I feel that’s my main need. But thought I should self report.
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      3. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        Still trying not to masturbate.
        Nov 4, 2023
      4. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        I think I’ve separated myself from the counter for the most part due to slip ups, it’s a process. But if you’re slipping up once or twice a month, that’s fucking leagues better than you were doing when you started.
        Nov 4, 2023
      5. Deleted Account
        Deleted Account
        It's always the most difficult early in the streak. You can do this
        Nov 4, 2023
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    8. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Didn’t really search for porn, but did touch myself while on a dating app.
    9. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      50+ days in. there's a few girls in my classes i'm interested in, going to ask them out this week. tbh though too busy with school rn.
      1. Deleted Account
        Deleted Account
        WOAHH 50+ DAYS! GOOD JOB DUDE. Anyways, hoping the best for you bro.
        Oct 21, 2023
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    10. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      i was last on here around the one month mark, i'm at day 53 rn it seems. i did get on dating apps for a few days in the mid, but deleted em.
    11. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      one month. what now? - keep going? date someone? sleep with someone? need to pick something soon.
    12. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      flatline has hit, it's not very fun lol, especially with what's going on in my life right now. but i can get through it.
    13. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      DAY 30! i still kinda wanna sleep with woman, i feel like i can, but i'm going to prioritize myself
      1. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        self development for the remainder of 2023, re-enter the dating market in 2024
        Sep 28, 2023
    14. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Day 28, one month is around the corner.
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    15. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      on day 26. certain i will hit day 30.
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    16. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Bad past 2 weeks, but it’s gotten loads better after adopting some frameworks from Atomic Habits! Ready to embark on a new streak!! Day 2.
    17. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Relapsed the day after my last status update. Had nearly 2 weeks of trying to find a way to make dating apps work, it didn’t workout.
      1. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        Had about 5 relapses in that time.
        Jun 11, 2023
      2. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        Intend to start again. Even though I’ve messed up I haven’t lost it all. 44 days of abstaining followed by a handful of relapses before starting again isn’t the end of the world. Picking myself back up today! End of Day 2.
        Jun 11, 2023
    18. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Haven’t relapsed but yesterday was dangerously close. I’m back to trying to arguing with myself about if Bumble/Hinge should be okay.
      1. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        If someone has strong opinions on that, please message me so I can open dialogue with a real human about it.
        May 29, 2023
      2. Spiritual Immunity
        Spiritual Immunity
        Okay in what sense?
        Jun 13, 2023
    19. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      Urge to use dating apps doesn’t go away. I wish I never began.
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      2. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        Part of me believe I’d be fine with it with where I am now. The other part of me thinks or knows how ashamed I’d be if I indulged myself.
        May 25, 2023
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      3. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        I don’t want to be addicted to those things or feel like I need them.
        May 25, 2023
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    20. sohardrn
      sohardrn
      urges are so fucking powerful today, i need a new strategy
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      2. sohardrn
        sohardrn
        Especially after being reminded my studying isn’t that hard, it’s just time-consuming and that made it scary. Overcome the fear and I’ll enjoy the studying.
        May 21, 2023
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      3. roofs
        roofs
        Your studying sounds exactly like my experience with my work right now, if I put in a decent amount of time it's actually fun and not scary anymore
        May 22, 2023
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      4. Khufu
        Khufu
        urges hit me the hardest when doing homework,my method i leave phone at home, i work at the library with my laptop, poeple always there and always looking at my screen when walking by its a natural instinct ,
        May 27, 2023
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    Gender:
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    The best me is the me who doesn’t use porn, doesn’t masturbate, and only releases through nocturnal emissions or sex. Allow my body to get used to nocturnal emissions as the out when I’m not banging.

    1. No Porn.
    2. No Masturbation.
    3. No Dating Apps.

    For 90 Days.


    1. Porn fucks up anyone’s head.
    2. Masturbation leaves me content, but fucks up my baseline. This stops my movement toward women. This stops my self-improvement. This stops my progress in all areas of life. I maintain where I’m at if I’m masturbate. I say don’t orgasm until you acquire a girlfriend you’re content with it. In the extra time between then keep building skills, money, and equity. Masturbation makes me escalate until eventually I’m back at porn.
    3. Dating apps make me a slave to my phone. The fragmentation of my attention is bad. It tugs and tugs at my needs for love until I masturbate.

    I will satiate my human need for love not with masturbation, but with time forming deep connections with people of my choice.

    Porn fucks up your mind.

    It matters not if I’m unable to use dating apps at peak times like the start of Summer or the start of the semester. It only frees me up to get stronger in other ways as opposed to my competitors. Whether this is by abstinence, by educating, or by getting ahead in my career. I am getting stronger, which readies me for stronger mates. Think about my first date in freshman year, to the second date I had in junior year. Yes, there was a dry spell, but the the quality in women I was dating increased dramatically.

    Yes, you need love and intimacy. But don’t sacrifice your strength for it. In fact, strengthen yourself in the process. Fuck masturbation. Be around people of your choice.

    Remember how much you’ve woke up early, remember the countless hours you’ve spent in the gym, remember your cold showers.

    YOU ARE IN-CHARGE.

    A Thought On Dating Apps.
    The girls I ask out in-person are usually also on dating apps, or have been on dating apps which affects how they interact with you even as you approach them outside the app.
    I say, get stronger. So you can ask out women outside apps with less trouble. Rack up a streak while my classes are online, so when I’m back in class, I’m fucking ready. When Summer ends, I’m even more fucking ready. When I graduate, I’m a god.

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    Dating apps lead to masturbation.
    Masturbation leads to porn.
    Porn leads to sadness.
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