sohardrn

Fapstronaut, Male, from USA

accept the fear that she might reject you when asked. let yourself enjoy budding relationships regardless. make the time to enjoy this. Sep 7, 2024

sohardrn was last seen:: Sep 22, 2024

1. sohardrn
  I refuse to jack off.
  
  Jan 30, 2023
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  2. SilentWolfSong
    Hold the line!
    
    Jan 31, 2023
2. sohardrn
  thinking about switching from weight training to calisthenics. Not sure what really to do for Calisthenics, it’s gonna be a challenge.
  
  Jan 25, 2023
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  2. Khufu
    i incorporate the two, i always use this channel for ideas an motivation,arnold.s beleives you got to mix it up an confuse your muscles ,it helps to build it https://www.youtube.com/@CHRISHERIA/videos
    
    May 4, 2023
  3. Khufu
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E0GKmU_iNm0
    say one week its ll wieght training then the next week its all calistics my muscles are crying because they are worn out, not knowing what im going to do next
    
    May 4, 2023
  4. sohardrn
    Wanted to switch because I thought relative strength might be better than absolute strength for martial arts. But tbh I’m doing great fitness wise. I think from now on I’ll do some martial arts work, followed by a weight training routine. It’s okay if I have to lower number of sets.
    
    May 7, 2023
3. sohardrn
  I am so stressed.
  
  Jan 22, 2023
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  2. sohardrn
    Nvm. See my journal to understand why if you want lol
    
    Jan 22, 2023
    
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4. sohardrn
  Day 35. I’m allowed to be physically attracted to a woman. Get to know whoever it is, and see if a relationship with them is what you want.
  
  Jan 22, 2023
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  2. sohardrn
    I’m also allowed to be unattracted to a woman. If I’m not into her outside her looks, that’s fine.
    
    Move on King
    
    Jan 22, 2023
    
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  3. Deleted Account
    Day 35! Good job mate. You are correct with both of those statements.
    
    Jan 22, 2023
    
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5. sohardrn
  Need to see the surplus of women I’ve been meeting NOT as potential romantic interests, but instead as good friends.
  
  Jan 18, 2023
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6. sohardrn
  Was at the gym and fantasized about having a girlfriend again for like 2 mins. You have to accept these thoughts will come to overcome them.
  
  Jan 16, 2023
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    It’s hard to accept you need to meditate, and then to do it. But it helps a lot.
    
    Jan 16, 2023
    
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7. sohardrn
  Had crazy urges after waking up. Just needed to change and eat breakfast.Taking a shit now lol
  
  Jan 11, 2023
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    Mornings are the worst lol
    
    Jan 11, 2023
    
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8. sohardrn
  Ironic process theory is a psychological concept asserting that conscious attempts to suppress thoughts make them more likely to surface.
  
  Jan 10, 2023
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  3. Animewario
    This is why thinking is good for you, as long as you don’t overthink. I sort of have a problem with overthinking.
    
    Jan 11, 2023
    
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  4. sohardrn
    Think with the purpose of actually reaching a conclusion. Don’t think “what am I gonna do today” and outline what you will be doing every hour within the day. Instead make a list of the things you need to so today, and how many hours they should each take. Then ask, “what is my next best move?”
    
    Jan 11, 2023
    
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  5. sohardrn
    For the remainder of the day whenever you finish a task or don’t know what to do ask yourself “what is my next best move?” Sometimes it means getting ready to head out to school, sometimes it means taking a few minute break to jam out to your favorite music, sometimes it means to begin that assignment you despise.
    
    Bottom line: Once you have your answer, act on it.
    
    Jan 11, 2023
    
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9. sohardrn
  When I wake up, I’ll be on day 23. Stark difference from when I started this streak. Still, progress to be made tmrw!
  
  Jan 9, 2023
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    Wow, 23 days. I'd love to get there sometime soon. Have a good day
    
    Jan 9, 2023
    
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10. sohardrn
  If I give my mind a moment of quiet I go headfirst into creating a new fantasy in my head. How do I overcome this?
  
  Jan 8, 2023
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  3. AModernMiroku
    Little by little with determination, discipline, & hope. You can do this!
    
    Jan 8, 2023
    
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  4. sohardrn
    I think it was due to stress levels.
    
    Found some new ways to manage it today, and started tackling the scary tasks as well.
    
    I’m gonna try to meditate the next time these urges feel like they’re taking over.
    
    Jan 8, 2023
    
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    That is a good approach to have. Where there is a will, there is a way! Good job
    
    Jan 8, 2023
    
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11. sohardrn
  I have been getting nonstop frequent strong urges all day. Day 18
  
  Jan 5, 2023
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12. sohardrn
  Taking a quick shit then finishing that task I’ve been putting off for months
  
  Jan 3, 2023
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13. sohardrn
  want to download a dating app but i won't, i'm stronger than that
  
  Jan 1, 2023
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14. Robbiebob
  You can do it my friend.... stay strong.
  
  Dec 31, 2022
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  2. sohardrn
    I’M GONNA KEEP IT UP!!
    
    (no pun intended)
    
    Dec 31, 2022
    
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15. sohardrn
  Close your eyes. 3, 2, 1. And do what you need to do.
  
  Dec 27, 2022
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16. sohardrn
  Use this sex drive not to jack off and spill my semen, but instead use it on the things that really matter to me.
  
  Dec 23, 2022
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17. sohardrn
  No, I will not install Tinder. My horniness is not as powerful as my desire to achieve my goals.
  
  Dec 23, 2022
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18. sohardrn
  I am on the edge of downloading a dating app again. I want to mindlessly swipe right and left until I get to talk to a hot girl.
  
  Dec 23, 2022
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19. sohardrn
  Using dating apps while rebooting your brain is the same as peeking at softcore porn.
  
  Dec 7, 2022
20. sohardrn
  Installing a dating app mid-reboot to avoid PMO makes it more difficult. You’re not PMOing, but you ARE feeding the same dopamine pathways.
  
  Dec 7, 2022
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The best me is the me who doesn’t use porn, doesn’t masturbate, and only releases through nocturnal emissions or sex. Allow my body to get used to nocturnal emissions as the out when I’m not banging.

1. No Porn.
2. No Masturbation.
3. No Dating Apps.

For 90 Days.

1. Porn fucks up anyone’s head.
2. Masturbation leaves me content, but fucks up my baseline. This stops my movement toward women. This stops my self-improvement. This stops my progress in all areas of life. I maintain where I’m at if I’m masturbate. I say don’t orgasm until you acquire a girlfriend you’re content with it. In the extra time between then keep building skills, money, and equity. Masturbation makes me escalate until eventually I’m back at porn.
3. Dating apps make me a slave to my phone. The fragmentation of my attention is bad. It tugs and tugs at my needs for love until I masturbate.

I will satiate my human need for love not with masturbation, but with time forming deep connections with people of my choice.

Porn fucks up your mind.

It matters not if I’m unable to use dating apps at peak times like the start of Summer or the start of the semester. It only frees me up to get stronger in other ways as opposed to my competitors. Whether this is by abstinence, by educating, or by getting ahead in my career. I am getting stronger, which readies me for stronger mates. Think about my first date in freshman year, to the second date I had in junior year. Yes, there was a dry spell, but the the quality in women I was dating increased dramatically.

Yes, you need love and intimacy. But don’t sacrifice your strength for it. In fact, strengthen yourself in the process. Fuck masturbation. Be around people of your choice.

Remember how much you’ve woke up early, remember the countless hours you’ve spent in the gym, remember your cold showers.

YOU ARE IN-CHARGE.

A Thought On Dating Apps.
The girls I ask out in-person are usually also on dating apps, or have been on dating apps which affects how they interact with you even as you approach them outside the app.
I say, get stronger. So you can ask out women outside apps with less trouble. Rack up a streak while my classes are online, so when I’m back in class, I’m fucking ready. When Summer ends, I’m even more fucking ready. When I graduate, I’m a god.
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Dating apps lead to masturbation.
Masturbation leads to porn.
Porn leads to sadness.

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