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The best me is the me who doesn’t use porn, doesn’t masturbate, and only releases through nocturnal emissions or sex. Allow my body to get used to nocturnal emissions as the out when I’m not banging.

1. No Porn.
2. No Masturbation.
3. No Dating Apps.

For 90 Days.

1. Porn fucks up anyone’s head.
2. Masturbation leaves me content, but fucks up my baseline. This stops my movement toward women. This stops my self-improvement. This stops my progress in all areas of life. I maintain where I’m at if I’m masturbate. I say don’t orgasm until you acquire a girlfriend you’re content with it. In the extra time between then keep building skills, money, and equity. Masturbation makes me escalate until eventually I’m back at porn.
3. Dating apps make me a slave to my phone. The fragmentation of my attention is bad. It tugs and tugs at my needs for love until I masturbate.

I will satiate my human need for love not with masturbation, but with time forming deep connections with people of my choice.

Porn fucks up your mind.

It matters not if I’m unable to use dating apps at peak times like the start of Summer or the start of the semester. It only frees me up to get stronger in other ways as opposed to my competitors. Whether this is by abstinence, by educating, or by getting ahead in my career. I am getting stronger, which readies me for stronger mates. Think about my first date in freshman year, to the second date I had in junior year. Yes, there was a dry spell, but the the quality in women I was dating increased dramatically.

Yes, you need love and intimacy. But don’t sacrifice your strength for it. In fact, strengthen yourself in the process. Fuck masturbation. Be around people of your choice.

Remember how much you’ve woke up early, remember the countless hours you’ve spent in the gym, remember your cold showers.

YOU ARE IN-CHARGE.

A Thought On Dating Apps.
The girls I ask out in-person are usually also on dating apps, or have been on dating apps which affects how they interact with you even as you approach them outside the app.
I say, get stronger. So you can ask out women outside apps with less trouble. Rack up a streak while my classes are online, so when I’m back in class, I’m fucking ready. When Summer ends, I’m even more fucking ready. When I graduate, I’m a god.