Recent content by Sri Holdanut

You did get a grip on your urges at the last moment. It's definitely not a relapse, since you didn't fap nor open a video. It's your call wether to restart the counter or not, but as long as you don't get tempted back to it it's not a relapse.

It depends. If having sex gives you urges, then it might help to abstain for a while. Although if your problem is ED, it might actually help since you are asociating pleasure again with biologically natural sex. I'm no neuroscientist but that is the way I see it tho. About my religious...

I realize I haven't really answered your question. My erections hadn't really gone before starting, I had morning woods and all but only got aroused by a determined fetish. My normal arousal came back around day 40. If your case is severe and you are expecting to be with a woman, I would wait to...

Yes I did have a mild case of erectile disfunction, and although I can't confirm is gone until I get down with a girl, I notice my sex drive way higher. Before I couldn't get hard with vanilla porn or fantasizing about women. Now I can get it on just by looking to a picture of a girl's face. If...

In this thread I want to share my whole experience through this 90 days in order to share the benefits, the challenges, my advice, but mainly to MOTIVATE you. Before my streak I had become fixated to certain subgenre of porn which I'm not going to name to avoid any triggers. All you need to know...

When I called It a marked I was quoting the other comment. I think everyone has the right of exercise their sexuality with free will. If you ain't getting booty it isn't because ALL women have a distorded sense of relationships, it's probably your fault. So I don't think anything, you can't tell...

Reporting back as a Jedi Knight. Day 48, zero relapses.

I'm sorry to be the one to break your illusion, but the pronounced selectivity in women's sexuality is an evolutionary trait, they only want high-value men because they probably have better genes. Changing an entire culture by force only for women to get in bed with low-value men is not only...

I understand your perspective on sexuality, since I have read a lot on sexual transmutation, but I still think that as long as you aren't a slave to your sexual desires they should not be demonized. Sexual energy is meant for creation, but it's also an energy of nurture. When you have sex with...

He numbered those things just to point out that is the ideal of masculinity you feel less compared to. Those things don't come natural to a flesh and bone man, so stop judging yourself for not fitting into that superfluos bland idea of what a man should be. No one should pursue those traits I...

That is not what he meant. Those three things are the interpretation of masculinity this kind of fetishes carve into your mind.

Learning any new skill will create new neuronal paths so it will be like a workout for your brain. If you have a decent computer try learning to use fl studio, make some electronic music, grab an instrument and learn some songs, write, anything that requires you to focus will help really. Also...

You didn't explain how it would be definitely related to nofap though

This is an idea I've been entertaining for a while. I have noticed that after overcoming strong urges, not only I feel relief but I feel like I have made some massive progress. Sometimes while going through I rough patch, certain triggers will come up as if some omnipotent asshole was trying to...

Don't take it so seriously brother, you are being too hard on yourself. Even though you have relapsed you are never back to square one. The important thing is that you are back on your feet again, keep that momentum going, learn from past mistakes, recognize your triggers and you should be fine.