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    hi Andrew , i just saw your message on my post. I look forward to an AP as well.

    hi Andrew , i just saw your message on my post. I look forward to an AP as well.
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    prepend: when will i get a tool to deal with this issue of lust.

    prepend: when will i get a tool to deal with this issue of lust.
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    120 day benefits

    Congratulation on the 120 days, man and that is my goal as well; I never want to touch my penis again as well. the penis was NOT meant to be played with by hands.
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    Philsophical/Moral Dimensions

    Great topic, Morrow. I think we do need to approach this issue from all angles : philosophical and moral. While we are being bombarded in our times, with pornography which places sexual pleasure above all and any pleasure: intellectual, social, physical, moral etc. there seems to be an absolute...
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    I've reached 90 days. How did I do it? A short summary. :)

    Thanks a ton! i see hope now. Thank you for sharing your story and experiences with us, Earthdragon. For a guy like me, who is still struggling with staying afloat with NOFAP, you are truly an inspiration and the 90 day truly looks like a possibility. With regard to emotional coasteride, you...
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    Ideal masturbation frequency

    I sure get it. I agree. I have been trying to be PMO free for 90 day for about 2-3 weeks since I joined this site and have already rebooted thrice. so I totally get it when you guys say even 90 days is tough.Honestly, I have been trying to quite for more than 20 years, ever since I first...
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    Ideal masturbation frequency

    I know, I do but not sure if everyone does. Some guys seem to want to quit porn and not masturbation necessarily, at least that is what I understand. There is a separate sub-forum for Pornography Addiction but none for Masturbation, so I am not sure if your assertions are right. I think...
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    Ideal masturbation frequency

    ideally, none. Great point Scato, and I must confess I do feel confused about it as well. Like you, I have set up a goal of 90 days of NoFap but wonder about the research out there. some claim mb prevents prostrate cancer, some say otherwise. Ideally I want to be fap free as I find fapping...
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    Strong urges for fetish

    Hope this helps I am attempting advice here, Chamilliion as you ask for it. As a south Asian gay Christian man, to a great degree, I see where you are coming from. The conflicts of morality and sexuality and society are tough indeed and sometimes things are not as easy or clear as we want them...
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    new here

    Loren, I am sorry to hear about your exhibitionism. It takes a lot of courage to admit such a thing. as a gay man, especially in our hypersexual times, I wonder about the morality of sex. and when I hear stories of peoples struggles with sex, I realize sex has a darker side to it. I am glad...
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    new here

    I just came back from a seminar and I thought it was interesting the way I approached the handsome guy. Its complicated. I am in a difficult time in my life. I am trying to make it into a very difficult profession/trade and today in the morning I realized for the second time, I might be in a...
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    new here

    Ended up slipping last night. Usual culprit. the weekend is the time when I lookout for fresh updated content on a porn website with my favourite "genre" of porn. Have been trying to stop for weeks and thought I would be able to get over it this week but didn't. I think it all started with...
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    new here

    hi everyone I am a 31 year old male who is tired of fapping with porn and compulsive mb. I was introduced to mb when I was about 10 0r 11 by a male relative , which after sometime I have started realizing was fairly predatory and since this when on for sometime was actually abuse. Also, it...
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