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This post and the comments amaze me. I appreciate the honesty of @RiverBlue asking the question in the first place. My thoughts are pretty simple: Is telling your wife a requirement for getting clean? No, plainly not. Is your porn addiction harming you, and by extension, harming your wife and...

@BigCatTunski Well done! Super job! I'd love to hit these kinds of milestones. How did you move from short challenges to long-term success?

@Jamex Good job! What's your plan for the next 30 days?

@AJ777 Good job!

I think the answers from women and partners are the most valuable here, so let me repeat what has been said: Ask whatever you need to know to continue this relationship. Don't stop asking until you get honest, clear answers. He brought a bunch of crap into your house. It's reasonable to want...

Good decision to stop. As a much older guy, hearing your story makes me feel sad for you. My addiction started a bit later than yours, but didn't develop into an all-consuming problem until much later. Keep going with the reboot. Your brain and body will sort themselves out.

Yes, I get you. I've been through this period before. You go down and down because your body is trying to come up with some way to feel better and it's not working. You're also investing an insane amount of time and mental energy into not doing something. It's exhausting. Give yourself some...

On the way towards something better.