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  • Day 27 without masturbating. I absolutely must not edge today. I need to quit all edging or I will surely slip with masturbation soon. Day 27. 231 days left to finish out 2025 strong!
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    Nice, don’t slip it’s a good streak! Keep it up! You need to stop edging. Try to do as many things as possible that give you natural dopamine. And don’t allow yourself to fall back into it. Sometimes I do it too, but not every day you need to get that out of your system.

    Stay strong brother!
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    experimentalObserver
    What's the definition of edging and masturbation for you? I always thought edging was the postponing of orgasm to keep dopamine levels elevated.
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    For me, if I touch myself and orgasm it’s masturbation. If I touch and it feels really good … and I keep doing it, that’s edging. If I come close to orgasm (the edge) then it’s definitely edging. If I touch a little, maybe without thinking about it, while washing etc. then I don’t count it as edging as long as I stop right away once I start to feel a dopamine rush coming on.
    Day 26 without masturbation. Day 1 without edging. Yesterday was a mess, unbelievable urges! Somehow I only edged. Very enlightening, at least to see when the urges didn’t occur.
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    Day 0 without edging. For a second there I thought “at least I’m not edging as bad today”, but then I kept going. :rolleyes:
    I must stop edging or I’m going to end up masturbating!
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    Day 25 without masturbation. I feel ashamed about my edging slip last night. I can see clearly just how powerless I am over urges. It’s unnerving but good that I see it … and that I didn’t give in.
    Day 22 without masturbation. Struggling. Really struggling…
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    deymi
    deymi
    you got this!
    Jewel_kitty
    Jewel_kitty
    You can do it MATE! Do something exhausting (physically) when you have an urge! I've discovered that whenever you have a really strong urge to do something it is essentially the brains final HURRAH attempt to get you to go back (a bit different with pmo, but same concept). This is true for situations such as if your freezing to death you're body will suddenly flare up the minutes close to death.
    Day 0 without edging. What’s wrong with me?? It only took a few seconds but that could have so easily crossed over the edge and I would have lost my streak without masturbation. Gotta stop the edging, not even for a few seconds! Especially when that might be all it takes :rolleyes:
    Day 16 without masturbation. Or edging? I didn’t overtly edge (kept my hands off) but there’s so many subtle things that could be on the edge of edging.
    Yesterday was VERY tough. The urges hit hard. Very hard.
    Heal2024
    Heal2024
    What is your definition of edging?
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    Great question. Touching myself and bringing myself to the edge of orgasm is clearly edging for me. Not touching at all is not edging. I’ll touch a little bit, but if I start to get aroused, fully erect or feel my mind going there …then I stop immediately. If I indulge in those feeling for maybe ten seconds or more, then I’ve gone over into edging territory
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    Then, of course, there are subtler forms of edging … like enjoying the spray from a shower or the vibrations in a moving car or like the way certain clothing feels. Or fantasy. Or checking out girls in the park. There’s a lot of grey areas
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    Very very cold shower. I always get my p*nis when I take a cold shower. Sometimes it’s just the lower half. More often it’s from the neck down. But just now I washed my hair which meant staying in for a long time. I’m freakin freezing!
    Cold shower. I don’t know how to handle the emotional letdown of not hearing from my AP, one for a day, one for a week+, one for a month+. Feel like I need someone to say “good work!” and “keep going!”
    Day 13 without masturbation. Barely. Yesterday, and in the middle of the night, I had some very near slips.
    No porn or edging either! That’s good. I think even a little porn or edging would have sent me right over the edge.
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