+TenPercent

I'm about ready to throw in the towel too.

@Hold it in - Hang in there!! This too shall pass.

Hold tight, you already know that the pleasure issuing from M is fleeting and very very short, while the problems are long and hard.

Try not to worry! I too have sometimes not measured-up. Life is short-bigger things to worry about. No pun intended.

take control, this girl is trolling your mind .

Hmm . . . I think it might be more like my addict mind is trolling my soul and my gf might be getting caught in the crossfire, poor girl.
I have unhealthy / emasculating fantasies about PE. And those thoughts (addict mind) clouded out loving feelings for her and led me to PE. Normally that's not an issue for me, but the fantasies were too strong.

stay the course. let the sex in your relationship be female led. the sex is better if it comes from them in the end anyway.

What dicks.
I had plans to wash my shirts (they only gave me three) on day 3. Now I will either have to miss my recovery meeting on day 2 (or stay up hella late at a laundromat on night 2 or 3) or show up to work on day 4 with a dirty shirt.

Thanks lol I tried. What does LTR stand for?

LTR = Long Term Relationship :)

I know what you mean. That's good, though. We need to examine ourselves and our triggers and if immense guilt can help us remember for the future, in a sense I guess the fall was worth it. (Doesn't change that it was a relapse, but it is better than failing being the end all and be all) My prayers are with you!

Noe.
Ok but you made it to 191 amazing days thats one 0 out of 191.Dont let it drag you deep down..get back up soon !

The feelings are normal but don’t let them drag you into a binge. You’re still kicking ass and one slip doesn’t do anything to all the progress you’ve made

Don't rely on anybody.

Still stuggling with powerful urges. Chaser effect. Fantasies have quite a hold on me.
Need to recognise that I am on day 4 without an O, so more or less right back at the beginning.

I hope she can be strong enough to let you do what you ned to do for right now..which is for the eventual best of the relationship..but i get her I would want my man to cum too lol :b Keep strong, +10%... You just make sure you do some activities to avoid falling down..! Please.

Dontttt..you're flirting with a huge void lol it'll suck you through

Dealing with the same shit man. NoFap would be so much easier otherwise

Device on. Ugh. I'm feeling a lot of shame for having to use this, especially knowing that I'm going to see my gf soon.
I feel almost as much shame as if I felt compelled to M or look at P before seeing her, or just how I used to have to M every time I felt anxious (even at work!)
But I know I'm doing well. Still recovering from 4 O's in 8 days.

@Coffee Candy - we actually met in AA (alcohol) but I think I get where she's coming from. I'd be freaked out dating a sex addict, too!
I spilled pretty much everything early on in our dating, but I think it's still really hard for her to really understand it. But, so far at least, she does accept my desire (need) to avoid orgasm.

I don't know what I will do if I ever relapse. That could be really hard to explain.
(or, depending on what happens, it may be something that's better not to tell her?)
I've also been relying sometimes on a chastity device. Eventually she's probably going to have to find out about that . . .
I think she'd be ok with it. But it still worries me.

Hehe, I was wrong, sorry ':)
Ya..it would be a little scary..

communication is key you know :) I am wishing the best for you guys and I'm rooting for your streak :)