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You may be right. I honestly don’t think she knows right now. She certainly may figure it out on her own as you say, or I may eventually decide I...
Thx! It’s already been many years, so it can’t get any worse. I’m now working on myself as best I know how. We’ll see if I ever get to the point...
And I’m hoping there’s 1% of the time you word hard on yourself and your marriage and never have to tell her! But first things first. Always...
I hear you. I have no doubt that keeping this huge secret is betrayal that’s hurting our marriage (to say the least). And for me, I have no doubt...
Sorry about that. Hope you're ok. Hoping to avoid that fate.
I like this post and agree with everything you say. Except the implication from the last sentence. While it’s true that the wife might be...
Thank you for that post! So much of what you say is right on point with my situation. My wife has expressed judgement toward others' sex...
Thx. I now have an appointment with a therapist so hopefully he’ll be able to guide me through this. I’m wondering whether I could have a...
I know you mean well. I’m not trying to be critical of anyone’s suggestions. I’m here for support of the community and just trying to do the best...
Thanks for this and trying my best. I don’t respond well to people when they claim to know exactly how I need to think and how to behave, etc. But...
I'm not sure what gives you right to judge complex people and complex relationships from a few online posts. I now accept full responsibility for...
I do agree with that and I know I need to find a therapist. It’s a big step for me and I’m unfortunately using my need to find the perfect one as...
Apparently you are just the perfect spouse. Unfortunately I’m not. Nor is my wife tbh. We’ve even tried couples therapy in the past and she was...
Perfectly said. And as I mentioned in another thread, I don’t think any two relationships are alike. And there’s no single right answer to how to...
I think everyone’s circumstances are unique. There is no black and white answer. My SO is seemingly happy with our relationship as is, despite its...
