TheMightyQuinn
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Birthday:
Jan 30, 1972 (Age: 47)
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Eastern US
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TheMightyQuinn

Fapstronaut, Male, 47, from Eastern US

TheMightyQuinn was last seen:
Oct 10, 2019
    1. fadedfidelity
      fadedfidelity
      I just started following your story. Fascinating! You have a unique situation that gives you empathy and understanding to both SO's and PA's. Very interesting (and yet disheartening) to see a man go through the same feelings of rejection and loneliness like a SO does. I hate to see anyone--male or female--suffer that.
    2. vxlccm
      vxlccm
      Good to see you here today ;)
    3. Deleted Account
      Deleted Account
      Hey Quinny, just stopped by to pay my respects and to wish you and Mrs. Q. a good day. Sending you best wishes.
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    4. Miss Winnie
      Miss Winnie
      Congrats on 33 days!!! :D
      1. TheMightyQuinn
        TheMightyQuinn
        Thank you. I'm feeling really good. Life is normal, there are hard times and there are good times. But I don't need to act out. I love the feeling of having my dignity and my integrity.

        Best to you, Winnie.
        Apr 28, 2018
    5. Roady
      Roady
      Nice genua pig in your avatar. Is it yours?
      1. TheMightyQuinn
        TheMightyQuinn
        Yeah I have 2 and he's actually the anti social one. The other one is nicer but he is more photogenic. :)
        Apr 11, 2018
      2. Roady
        Roady
        Ah cool, I've 2 as well. They are cute and funny.
        The one on the photo is really cool :)
        Apr 11, 2018
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    6. vxlccm
      vxlccm
      We do support you. These folks are awesome. Plenty of us have had only intermittent success. Being here will help you build on existing successes :)
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    Gender:
    Male
    Birthday:
    Jan 30, 1972 (Age: 47)
    Location:
    Eastern US
    Occupation:
    programmer
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    Hey there, I'm Quinn.

    I'm 46 years old. I have been a sex addict since age 10. I started using hardcore pornography when I was 13. By the time I was 30, I started getting massages with happy endings. I was doing this once or twice per year at first but eventually it became a two times per week problem. Eventually I started having sex with prostitutes.

    I got help when I was 38. I started therapy and joined a 12-step group. I've had a rocky recovery. I've grown and changed immensely but I've never been able to stay clean for very long.

    I love "the rooms" and am grateful for everything they have given me. But I needed more. I started a weekly meeting of friends in recovery where we could actually cross-talk out our problems. Big help! I joined nofap. Big big help!

    A few things about me:
    - I try to be doctrine-free. You will not hear me say that this way or that way is the only way that works. I believe it is the person who works it that makes it work, whatever it is. I avoid religious wars of any sort like 12-step vs. SMART vs. nofap vs. higher power vs. brain science. It's all the same thing to me. Whatever works for you works. Whatever works for me works.
    - I don't believe in the powerlessness vs. power argument. All powerlessness in the 12 step context means is that I need help and that I cannot solve my problem in isolation.
    - I am very spiritual. I very much believe in god and "oneness". I am not a Christian though I was raised one. But I believe my recovery is a spiritual journey. I don't believe it has to be this way for anyone else.
    - I try to keep a very open mind.
    - I try to refrain from giving advice
    - I have a lot of 12-step experience so I tend to talk that talk. That does not mean I specifically endorsing that approach.
    - I try to be teachable

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