Recent content by theNewStoic

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    Swing between zero libido to fighting urges.

    OK. Good to hear I am not alone in this. Good luck @Mr. Kruger and @Thomas Babcock
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    Swing between zero libido to fighting urges.

    Almost 10 days through. I am experiencing a weird swing between low and high libido. One Minute I am fighting an urge and the next I have no sexual interest in anything. Strange! I wonder if that happened to anyone before...... Does anyone have any experience with that?
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    Introduction of an addict

    Hey @userfriendly welcome to the community. Here you will get a lot of support. But remember, much happens when you are not here. So always keep an eye on yourself. If you have any questions or need advice, just go ahead or swim in the vast experience ocean in the forum. And yeah, definitely...
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    Day 40!

    Hey @FailingForward I am not an expert but I guess if you just want to have sex because someone looks good, without even talking to them. When you talk with a girl and you are aroused by her personality, intelligence, world view, you name it. Then this might end up into a relation. I hope this...
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    Day 40!

    @Jack002 There are definitely real benefits. I did a 35 day streak and then relapsed. When I was not on PM, I had so much better sex with my girlfriend. I could keep up a hard erection when she was getting off and it didn't feel much for me. I could ejaculate again when penetrating. Before I...
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    I'm intimidated by good looking girls, help

    I agree with you. Attractive women are human and they want to be treated as such. The key here is don't try too hard. Be a normal person. Don't think of them as "attraktive women" think of them as people who might be interesting. Like anyone else.
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    Newbie Fapstraunaut

    Thanks @M.S.H. Impressive will power.
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    Newbie Fapstraunaut

    Hey @jalan.lurus Holding your urges can be very hard. I used to masturbate also in the morning a lot. Especially if I am oft work and alone at home. Right now we got a puppy and I have to do a lot with him when I wake up. Go for a walk, make him breakfast. Make my girlfriend and I breakfast...
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    Newbie Fapstraunaut

    Thanks @MisterDirection for the recommendation and the encouraging words. :) I will check out that book right away. Good luck to everyone indeed. :)
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    Newbie Fapstraunaut

    Hey everyone, I learned about this community through this TED Talk: the great porn experiment. I was really happy to learn there is a community that can support each other. I am 30 years old. In a relationship with a great woman for 4 years now. I am a heavy PMO addict. I PMO at least once a...
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