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There were other things I could have and needed to be doing, like work, I was just stuck in a rabbit hole. Thanks for the encouragement. Posting...
I would love some prayers and support. The past two days have been filled with urges. I’m about 80 days in to my 90 day challenge and it’s getting...
Thanks Tao. I get down on myself. I’ve set my bar higher and higher and when I fall, my feeling about myself is worse now than it was before. Just...
Any advice or tips on how to deal with/work through internal shame? How to forgive yourself and get past things you’ve done in the past that are...
I agree, that’s why I’m not also fighting the urge to look at porn, but to also fantasize about sex with my wife. It’s a tough battle, especially...
I understand completely. But I want to figure it out. Honestly, sex has been our biggest challenge in our marriage. P did nothing but fuel that...
I’ve been no PMO for 61 days now. I’m actually pretty proud of myself. I feel like I’ve gotten passed the urges and have my triggers under...
This is an important topic for me. It’s probably the main reason I’m hung up on thinking about sex more than I should. I’m almost 60 days of no...
I think, for me, it’s less about actually having sex and more about being wanted or desired. Since my wife doesn’t want to have sex with me, I...
We agreed to the schedule together and it was a huge compromise. One day a week is all I ask. We have missed that day one time, but we were on...
I have that issue sometimes the day after. I’ve discussed it on here. But it depends on the encounter really. And how much I allow myself to...
You always have great answers Tao. I’m going to work on daydreaming about my wife. Hopefully that will help me see her more as a wife and less as...
No to hard mode. P use has been an issue in my marriage for almost 15 years. We have had several blow ups in the past over it and I’d rather not...
I love what you said “my wife didn’t read the script”. The amount of frustration this has caused me is crazy. But this is also why we decided to...