Damn these urges! We all hate'em but we know that suffering in these moments and not allowing ourselves to edge will make us stronger.
In fact, only by going through them can we get stronger. Therefore, they're opportunities for growth!
Hey buddy, I come across you so many times! Nice to meet another DBZ fan :D How's your reboot going pal?
Hello :) last time i edged and lost the battle but now I have restarted with a new determination to not edge what so ever the case. It's been past 2 weeks now and now let's see how far I can go.
You're doing great bud, don't ever give in! You can go very far, you have it in you, just keep that fire from burning out. Good luck! :)
Complicated exercises or efforts are not needed to find peace. Simply understand that your true nature is peace. :)
Go to the reboot logs section, choose the 20 to 24 section and there you will be able to post a thread. It's somewhere on the upper right corner. You could update it daily or whenever you choose.
I did a mistake. I played with it a bit and had pre cum build up but I stopped and did not continue to O, Should i count it as relapse?
You're right Struggle Bug, I realized that the urges that followed after that were much stronger but I have not given up. This incident is of 1 day before and I still have urges. I would suggest everybody to not do the mistake I did. After a decent time period of abstinence it starts becoming more and more sensitive to even light stimulus.
No relapse, guy! That's more like wobbling on the fence, to me! Been there. it can actually be turned around if you move away from it and notice that what you thought were urges were just decisions that went away the moment you decided they were not an option. "What doesn't relapse you makes you stronger!:)"
Hey all, I have my exams coming and I feel a bit stressed out due to lack of proper preparations. Need some stress relief suggestions
exercise. something thats either monotonous so you can let your brain relax, or really involving like a team sport so your brain is fully engaged.
if you need to study and need to be alert, try a coffee nap http://theconversation.com/health-check-what-are-coffee-naps-and-can-they-help-you-power-through-the-day-73952
What I like most about your question is that you ask it at all! It shows how serious you are and how well you're controlling and monitoring yourself! Power to ya!
Guys, I am suffering from pain in my left testicle, I guess it's blue balls. What should I do? Any suggestions?
Get an ice pack. Wrap it in cloth. Put it over your crotch. Don't make sudden movements, or else the pain will get stronger.
How are you doing? Don't see a checkin for the scare away pmo Oct. Hopefully your November is still going well!
I failed at the scare away pmo Oct. But now I am determined, I've already made it to 3 weeks now aiming for a full month. :)
Awesome, man. Forget October, that was training grounds, like the game tutorial... November is where you have victory!
BOOM! See. Now you're at 30 in November. That's the way it's done. Tell everyone else, just: KEEP TRYING !!!
I heard her say this about me to her boyfriend - "atleast, he behaves like a gentleman." It felt like a compliment to me. Thanks to nofap.
Quite a compliment indeed. There's not much better. Maybe someday she'll realize what she really wants.
If you feel some urges then prepone the upcoming tasks. Always do something productive one after the other.
