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Not too much information at all! Just wanted to tell you that and also that I don't have enough time at the moment to give you as in-depth of a response as I would like to, but will follow through as soon as I am able to. In the meantime, take good care :-)

Hey Anonymous321, thanks for reaching out :-) before I continue, I am curious as to know whether the problem you are referring to is related to the masochistic themes that I wrote about in a post a while back or the general struggles with nofap that I have posted on my page?

How empowering it feels to recognize my freedom of choice! It is easier in this way to keep track of why I am doing this in the first place: to help myself heal, not to boss myself around.

Through all of the relapses, I have learned many things..one of which is that obeying an internal authority figure doesn't work for me. When I keep FIGHTING my cravings because I think that I *have* to, I eventually burn out, stop caring, and want to treat myself.

"You can do whatever you want..it's your choice. Nobody else can make your choices for you. But if you wish to grow out of the suffering that is linked to this addictive cycle, it will be necessary for you to detox and break these habits."

:) thanks for reaching out!

We can inspire each other. There is great beauty in that, though ultimately, the choice to make a change belongs to nobody but ourselves.