Recent content by Xwin

Thanks man, I appreciate this. Seems like the struggle never ends but the least we can do is take it one day at a time. Knowing that many people share this burden is already a different way to look at this. I am learning to approach this with a cooler head lately - I've been angry and...

Hi man, I am just like you. I am totally 100% with you. I am stuck at 4-5 days and poof! all progress gone.

Hi Alex_88, I've just landed on this forum precisely because I feel the same now. I have a ton of work to do but I feel so tired and depressed to start. I've been falling off the nofap wagon a lot lately but this time I want to stay clean for at least two weeks. I'm on day 3 now. When the...

Thank you for this. I actually came here on my last conscious thought before edging. Instead of going to a P site, I landed here. Your post helped me organize my thoughts and I know that I'm not going to relapse today.

Bre, there are always people who will put you down just to make themselves feel good. Hate drives them. For what it's worth - I don't know you and I never will. But I'm the sort of stranger who always roots for others. My thoughts are with you. I'm sending you all the warmth an positive energy...

This made my day. Thanks for sharing. I was secretly rooting for you, dude! Things happen when you put your mind to it.

Hey man, I know exactly where you are. I've been trying to quit for years and even had some minor successes on the way. Now, for a reason I can't really comprehend my triggers are getting stronger and stronger. Just noticing some random young women in the street may be triggering. One thing I...

Hey man that's a really powerful start you got there! Keep it up. I could never last longer than a month so I guess you could call me a veteran quitter but one thing I learned here that changed my life: don't hate yourself for this. I started to accept who I was and I'm making slow but steady...

Start a Group. A book club or something.

How are you doing so far?

Sometimes the harder you try the harder it gets. Relax man - chill out and don't look at your life through this experience. I'm sure you have many talents. Just let that frustration go and be yourself. Mark my words - be the true you and you will find a girl!

Hey man, cheer up! You stumbled, now think about it and move on!

OMG man! A YEAR?! that is something. It must feel like a long way, looking back at the whole thing. Thanks for sharing and congrats on the new baby!

Hey Paddy - you said you were Irish. I'm Polish, you know. We both come from strong, fighting (& a bit crazy) nations. One thing we definitely have in common - except for our affinity for beer - is that we can't be broken. This fight is in our blood, man!

Hey man, thanks for sharing your story. I'd be happy to share some advice except, well, I don't have any. I turned 30 in December and I was sort of expecting a magical transformation that never came. I realized that a change of my predicament won't come by itself. A week ago I talked to a friend...