POLL: If one of your NoFap goals was to eliminate social anxiety...

after some days it comes for me easy to talk to woman and make smalltalk. i am normally an shy guy. mo about 20 years

 

I was a somewhat of a "late bloomer" but I decided one day that I wanted to have certain type of people/women in my life and then I gradually exposed myself to these circles. I ended up creating a habit of doing that. As I naturally got more comfortable around them my personality shined through more and I cared less and less what others thought of me. The key is not to put anyone on a pedestal (and I'm not suggesting looking down on anyone either) as they sense the energy which ultimately makes them feel threatened. Beautiful women are human beings just like anyone else. They eat, sleep, poo, and have 24 hours in a day just like we do. They are not better than us and we are not better than them, and they have the same insecurities and issues as we do. Engage and respect them as you would ultimately want to be respected.