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Infidelity is one of the very best reasons to walk away from a relationship. Of course you don’t think so because you got yours, you weren’t...
I agree there are differences, I just don’t think they are as much as we have been taught to believe. During puberty it was the exact same for...
The pill was not as reliable. The 70’s a woman couldn’t even get a credit card on her own. Women were still expected to marry and be moms. Today...
I don’t believe male sexual attraction is as different from female as most of us have been conditioned to believe. I do believe we have been...
Yeah, I’m not a people pleaser( that should be obvious from my posts, but I get it, this is an anonymous site supposedly) rarely avoid conflict(...
This is very much how my husband describes it.
Yes, I do. But I think she thinks shame = feeling bad. Whereas I think guilt = feeling bad. BUT. I do have a difficult time with empathy. I do not...
^^^ this. He is not trustworthy at all. He has irreparably damaged both her and the relationship to the extent that neither will ever be the same....
Oh, I love Brene Brown. She was one of the first I started reading when my csat was trying to explain shame vs guilt. Triggers and reinforcement I...
Something you might not realize you cannot shame someone who doesn’t already believe and shame themselves. I have a very difficult time...
Very well put. It’s also why so many relationships do not survive this. It’s really hard to be empathetic towards the person who stabbed you in...
I think this is why the suggestion for location or life 360. It resolves the issue..he doesn’t have to remember to call and wife feels safer being...
I’m genuinely curious what concessions are shame based? He physically cheated, so has put her health at extreme risk. Wanting to know where he’s...
Well, you gave me a good laugh. I can see how it would be misconstrued if you never experienced or heard of it. It’s a perfect description though....
Everything she’s done is extremely common with betrayal trauma. The pain shopping isn’t actually shopping. It’s a phrase to describe what...