91 days hard mode

Congrats bro keep it up!!!

 

Since I stopped pmo February 22th 2021, I don’t have any problems by abstaining from P, M and O. The only thing is that I have been here and there sometimes on Tinder or instagram in the last 1,5 month. I’m now texting a lot with a girl who is gonna be my girlfriend most probably when I get back from holiday. At the moment I’m just texting normall with her I get very often a boner. Is that a relapse or a setback? I’m avoiding visual porn, imagination, Masturbation, Orgasms (I Get once in 3/4 weeks a wet dream). So I want to know what you guys think about my situation. Further can I say. I went on a single date 3 weeks ago with some girl, and at the end of the date we ended up hugging and kissing and in 5 minutes time I got a 75% boner.

 

IMHO you are a human male! Congratulations, things are working as they should!

I don't think this is a relapse or setback at all, you are (in your own words) avoiding porn and fantasy; a wet-dream you have literally little control over (as long as you are not living your days in fantasy and imagination, well what else can you do?)

Good for you to get 'out there' with IRL women and stop the porn use. The longer you go (we're talking decades) the harder it is to stop.

 

im really thinking to use some Ed drugs the first time when we are gonna have sex to boost my confidence as well. After every time we have sex I want to use less ed drugs until I don’t use it anymore. What do you guys think of that? And one other question, do you guys think that I should have already a 110% boner by just kissing her for 5 minutes with clothes on to be cured (able to have sex at least?) or is the fact that I got a 75% boner by the last girl I was kissing a sign that I can’t have sex yet?