hello it’s my 1st thread

Intimacy I mean anything really with exceptions of hugs and kisses.

Man this Xmas is going to be hard!!!

 

I have taken on board your boundaries advice but I need some steer on consequences please

 

This is a sample list of Boundaries (These would be my top picks)

CORE BOUNDARIES:

• No Lying
• No Apathy
• No Pornography Substitutes (P-Subs)
• No edging
• No objectification or ogling other women
• No circumventing Blocker Apps or Reporting Apps, parental controls, WiFi restrictions, Proxy Servers, or anything else designed to monitor your electronic media activities

ADDITIONAL BOUNDARIES

• No perpetual cycles of relaps/reset ****Not sure how this works in early stages?*****
• No CD/DVD/VHS or any other media containing pornographic images or videos
• No books, magazines, or other material of an erotic nature of any kind
• No Applications (Apps) whose intended purpose is to disguise inappropriate material.

FUTURE POTENTIAL BOUNDARIES

• No social media, including but not limited to, Facebook, Kik, Tumblr, Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, et al.
• No Incognito Mode on any browser or deleting any history in whole or in part
• No strip clubs, adult novelty stores, or adult magazine sections in any store
• No cameras, video recording devices, hidden or visual, at any time
• No News Groups or Internet Relay Chat
• No Deep Web and No Dark Web, including TOR Brows er of any kind
• No Incognito Mode on any browser or deleting any history in whole or in part

GREY AREA BOUNDARIES:
Not sure how this one works if I am not the 'Accountability Partner' & Can I set these??

• If you have a slipup, relapse, of any kind, you must notify me within 24 hours
• No PMO, or any combination thereof. *****This will have to be his decision to have as a boundary*****
• No erotic texting or Sexting, or electronic correspondence of a sexual nature ***will this be something we can ever look to do again??***

 

So much to consider it’s mind boggling!

I am still majorly unsure on what the actual consequences should be at this early stage? Is it a case of if you break a boundary ‘xyz will happen’ if so what are the sorts of xyz scenarios would I need to consider imposing?