If you could choose your dream partner...

everything i'm doing is so i wont have to choose

 

A girl that sticks with me till i die
enjoys fitness
open for soft drugs (only using it together)
dont care about the looks... after a few months in the gym with me she will look great anyway.
personality changes so idc about that either, just dont be a bitch, dont command me
dont try to be the boss over me, no alpha beta bullshit
just be a "human"... we are not monkeys anymore right
and must cuddle everyday


all the above is very possible
only thing that will never happen is the stick together till death part
girls are jumping everywhere now
using guys as shoes "you dont go to a shoe store without shoes on" right
ye ye not every girl is like that just joking around a bit
just love me and i love you
thats all there is
dont try to find a reason to live because there is non
even if you did something that changes the world
in the end it wouldnt matter anyway
so just let me hold you while we watch how the world is changing while we stay the same loving couple

i want to be like 100years together with that girl and then when she dies cuz of natural causes
i die from a heart attack because i cant handle the fact that shes gone
a literal heartbreak

 

Dream man:

Shallow things: he'd be tall, handsome, with dark auburn hair and green eyes, pale skin and some freckles, really thin but strong, muscular but not lots of hypertrophy, long fingers, graceful, caries himself with good posture. Ideally he'd have taken a dancing class or two, or maybe he'd be a martial artist.

More important things: I tend to like ENTp types, since they are my Socionics dual, and I've liked them even before I found out about duality. So I want someone who is extroverted with a strong ability to see creative possibilities, who loves to break old systems and try out every new idea, and who uses logic to bring those ideas about in the world. I also want someone who enjoys being taken care of physically and being given tons of nurturing attention, because that's what I want to do when I like someone.

Most important things: He'd feel free to be the most authentic him possible. He'd be independent. He'd have integrity and respect for life. He'd be completely trustworthy, so I can trust him to be the leader in my life. He'd have control over his sexuality, and would be happy to do karezza. He'd value our connection before immediate gratification. He'd have his purpose, and let me help him in it.

In the end, he'd be someone I can marry, he'd be my best friend, he'd be the one man I look up to and follow.

Edit: It's also important that we both appreciate and respect our gender differences.

 

She's funny, she's my age so 16, is accepting of the fact that I play video games too much, she does too sometimes. She likes rock, heavy metal and even a bit of metalcore music like me, doesn't get into trouble, she's rather shy and introverted and doesn't have very good social skills like me, we're on the same level. She's rather blunt and always tells me the truth and what she thinks even if it might hurt my feelings. She's an atheist like me (I've nothing against religion) but we relate on everything. She would go on roadtrips up north with me and doesn't need her phone every 5 seconds. She loves animals and children and wouldn't mind raising some when we're a bit older. As for looks she's shorter than average, and has black hair a few inches longer than mine, which is just touching my shoulders. She's also a bit tan. But I don't much care for looks.

 

Dream Partner - my best friend and my worst enemy! Can lay down her life for me. Can kill me if I'm in the wrong. Doesn't hold back from being her own person but recognizes that a fusion of our spirits will liberate us. Actively challenges me to be a better person - never bounded to me, always an open-door relationship. If things are not working out i.e. I'm lagging behind in whatever or she is, not afraid of confrontation and if need be, has the strength to let me go or walk away. We stay together despite everything... love is limitless, endless, and infinite. Willing to lift any and all of my burdens and I, hers. She's an extension of my being. No matter how great a day we had or great a quarrel, everything is forgiven or stored away for later by the time of sleep. Maddeningly stubborn - can handle furious judgment and understands a no BS approach to life. Wants to better herself and the world. Has regrets or failures (I know that she took risks and over-extended herself) but isn't encumbered by them. This was a fun game... who I will find is who I will deserve in the long run. It doesn't matter in reality, who it is. Once we meet, she should be absolutely open to change and so should I... we can be and make our own life when we meet.

 

Looks: Works out and has a 6 pack, I'd settle for a swimmers build too but he has to be able to open all the jars I can't.
Hair in all the right places.
I love beards or even 5 o clock shadows, feels great on bare skin
Soft curly hair, the kind you'd like to run your hands through
Strong arms, makes cuddling so much more fun when you can grope his forearms
Strong Calves - I have no idea why, they just look so different from womens I could stare at them all day long
A tan from surfing/hiking/ etc.
Manly voice
Well toned butt
Personality:
Has to be a better person than me morally
Doesn't compromise on his values
Likes himself
Has a purpose in life
Not a door mat
Emotionally stable
Optimistic
Good sportsmanship
Adventurous - willing to try new things (sexually too)
Has a sense of humour
Easy to please
Great with kids
Patient but doesn't put up with my BS

 

Lets see:

Meaningless stuff: She must have eyes in a blue or green color (top priority on my list of shallow stuff)
I would prefer her blonde.
She must not speak my native language (aiming for the hot, sexy accent here)


Really important stuff: She must be passionate about something that is not for living (I mean, she could play an instrument, practice a sport, cook, dance, whatever, but she must have fun doing so and be willing to put aside time for her hobbies)
She must be a good listener and have a nice sense of humor.
She must like going out (I am a naturally shut-in person so perhaps chasing after her will help leave the house and enjoy nature).

 

Great to realize that all your dream partners walk down the street everyday.