Premature Ejaculation is standard?

I guess the only way to ejaculate is by having an organsm, isnt it? You just may not be having a good orgasm, what is totally different from not having an orgasm at all

 

I can definitely relate. I had rarely had a "proper" orgasm in the last 12-15 years. (i was severely PMOing) Many people don't understand this, but ejaculation isn't necessarily an orgasm. I had very rare orgasms from oral sex and masturbation, but 98% of the times it felt more like a sneeze than an actual orgasm.

I had a very pleasant orgasm once after i completely abstained from any sexual arousal for 60+ days. It reminded me of my first orgasms in adolescence. Then I went on a binge and again.. felt nothing.

@Daniel Forster

 

Hmmm, I get it what you mean. As for myself I consider these 'sneeze' as a terrible organsm Haha' - But I got your point. When I was at PMO, masturbating was like an routine, there are days I wasnt horny but I watched porn just like an obligation (Maybe because I was addicted to it? I don't know) when that happens ejaculating felt like nothing you know? Maybe it's similar to what happens to you. But after I started NoFap things got really better, I had sex last weekend, man, I've never such good orgasm like I had last weekend, so maybe ejaculation without orgasm happens because you was watching too much porn, that just my thought about it.

 

On the very rare occasions it happened i was either very relaxed (no particular stress about anything) or have had a good streak.

I wouldn't even call most of my orgasms "orgasms", but rather just "releases", cause like i said, i felt next to 0 pleasure.

Premature ejaculations in particular were very bad and i had those a lot when i had sex. I always went for round 2 immediately and i kept hard for another 15-20 minutes but i had 0 pleasure during sex.

I think it's partly because of anxiety partly because we fried our neurons with so much porn/edging/ejaculations/sexual fantasizing.

 

I know what you're speaking of. Whenever I do it too often, it's just a mechanical release with little to no "orgasm" sensations. So I guess it's still an orgasm physiologically speaking but it sure is a lackluster one. Afterwards I'm just doubly frustrated. Not worth it.

 

You didn't mention premature ejaculation? As far as I'm concerned, I tend to be a bit quick when I don't exercise and my orgasm are less strong then. But when I'm fitter and/or with antidepressants, I last longer and orgasms are much stronger to the point that when I have to force myself to come them I can feel the orgasm coming from far away and slowly reaching to the surface, and it's like an explosion.

 

That's unusual I think. Did you seek medical advice?