What's the point honestly?

I feel like I can't make any friendships in real life. I try and make a friend and they just get what they want out of me for a time and just straight up leave. What's the point? Anything I try just doesn't seem to work. I'm gonna be alone for life and that's that.

 

I would like to encourage you. I've often felt the same way in life, from my point of view you have to live for something even if you have nothing. Some people connect with the Almighty, some join a band others volunteer their time. I had to remember there is always something to live for. Always, always, always. Even if it's pitch black everywhere. I was fortunate Jesus stopped me in my tracks and revealed himself to me in a most personal way. And, I, cannot thank him enough. It's totally the corny sinner meets Jesus story but it's my story. lol

It totally changed my life. I hope this helps

 

Yeah honestly the only peace I have is when I pray. I know that someone out there is listening because I've had that experience. I'm not sure what God that is, but it's a God. I just wish I could have a real friendship in life. Not a fake one. Like an actual face to face friendship.

 

But honestly I don't care though. Being alone is better than the heartache that comes when the friendship is over.

 

I think since we are such social animals it really cuts deep when a friendship doesn't manifest, ends early or we just can't make a connection. Try not to worry about it, because worrying only adds to your mental dilemma

To put things in perspective, to know yourself, and to be patient enough with yourself to accept whatever outcome you find yourself in is key.

To be content with the way things are is hard and nothing comes easy, but you seem like a great dude. Someone is bound to notice what you have to offer in the friendship dept.

 

So I guess just accept my loneliness as it is? I can do that.

 

Yes and No. Yes because sometimes loneliness is something we have to deal with, as unfortunate as it is and it does suck. Some people are of the opinion that things don't leave us until they teach us..

No because at some point
you must take control to direct your path to places that are conductive to high possibilities of meeting friends. Whatever that may be, Join a club, play a sport, there s literally endless possibilities to meet someone.

Just keep moving.

 

The hard thing is... Why would I want to meet someone when I already know they'll probably just use me and turn on me in the future?

 

it's a good question. But you shouldn't set yourself up for failure by playing out hypotheticals in your mind. I think people are in general good. Give them a chance, make good choices. Don't go for instance to some gang bangers house to try and kick it

One way or another a valuable friendship should come your way, Good luck to you my friend.

 

I guess we'll see... I just don't know how to meet people or where to meet people. And when I do meet people, it turns out horribly for me... I literally lost a friendship the other day

 

Thank you for that. Seriously.

 

Yeah thanks for increasing my anxiety.

 

Lol yes xD One problem though. I'm a broke college student.

 

Don't even pay attention to somebody like that. It's just noise, keep on keepin' on,