[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

relapsed on day 9.... day 1 again

 

Still 0. Had a fall again.

 

5/90, let's begin this journey

 

90 days is an awful lot for the average person. Let's try it then.
2/90
I wonder where we will be once you and I make it to 90.

 

day 2/90 completed sucessfully

 

Day 7

 

I found dat if I am hungry, I dont want to fuck anyone. So I try intermitten fasting from now.

 

Day 56/90 Successful.

 

I'm wondering too. The only way to know is to reach 90!
Lets do it!

 

i think the best path is to just engage in the usual activities. you see, the urges grow when we dwell on sexual thoughts. it´s not the first stimulus that create the relapses, it´s the thoughts that follow it.

so the best think in your situation is entering home and do the precise steps to avoid autopilot at all costs. ex: go straigh to bed, use the bathroom with the door open, handle the mobile to your wife, etc etc.
positive thinking don´t work well in the inicial stages of the reboot because the compulsive brain is very strong. just create physical barriers, they are very demotivating. work´s like a charm

 

yep, it´s pretty normal. flatline.

 

i think you´re seeing this as a timeline, a point in time where you won´t have to deal with urges or sexual thoughts.
see like this: addictions are chronic diseases, there is no cure for a severe addiction. to live a quality life we must learn to live in abstinence. living in abstinence means accepting that we will never have a "normal" relation with lust. maybe that sexual thought or urge will never go away. so all we have to do, all we have to master is how to face the present moment in proper terms: "no matter how hard this moment is, no pmo". that´s the core of the reboot, that´s the core of our future life.

 

good luck!!!

 

very good bro, keep going, you´re doing great

 

you broke my record congratulations bro!! now onwards to 90 days. remember:
"this moment, just this moment, no pmo"

 

today would be day 8, but i got to be honest, i watched some nudes some days ago. so i´m gonna adjust my counter according to that. day 2

once again, i don´t recommend anyone to do this, because it´s not a relapse, i just want to keep my streak clean.

 

Hi Bros!!! Today is my day 3. I have some sexual thoughts but I spent my time with my family at the outside so it was easier to handle with it. I changed my goals this time, it will be only porn and nudity, will allow myself to masturbate in bathroom. I do not know If it is ok during rebooting my brain. Best wishes.

 

Felt a bit of temptation the past few days but am doing okay.

 

Day 0

Just starting!

 

I relate to the strong urges, and seeing someone and thinking about wanting to do sexual things with them. At these moments I recognize myself turning into a predator. Not an appealing thing to be. It is so worth getting out of the habit of living in that frame of mind. I've been the target of a predator before. Not a pleasant experience.