THE FINAL COUNTDOWN • NOFAP COUNTDOWN WITH ACHIEVEMENTS TO UNLOCK [OPEN]

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Hey, welcome back @bluedragon9. You are back on the finaList going for GUARDIAN, 5 days. I never had porn blockers on devices but think it's good, can help. Best is though to have a strong mind, work on that, porn blocker in mind. Sometimes it helps to just say: not in the next 10 minutes / or hour. One hour at a time. It'll pass, urges never stay. Do not engage in any story. Like a scientist watch and observe disengaged. The nihilistic part may be your brain coming up with ways to make you fall but keep in mind: The fun is not to fall. Maybe it can help to see it as you were in a game. And "Porny" tries to get you . Your job is to navigate yourself through the "tempted land" (not the promised land), overcome hurdles and unravel the mistery, avoiding and moving on, looking for the exit to come out of the storm unharmed. And then grow and glow, reaching for the stars and thrive. Stay strong and create a purpose for which it is worth freeing yourself of all dependencies.

 

That's a very brave move you did confessing to her, wow. Coming out of the hiding is also an important step in recovery. "We're only as sick as our secrets", is an adage used in the twelve step programms. Shame and hiding go also hand in hand. So coming out and admitting first to oneself then to others who are trustworthy is a huge step.
One thing I would like to add if you permit. "Doing it for her" can be helpful and a good motivator yet don't forget, it could make you dependent on her. If things go right then all may be fine, if there are troubles coming up, you will be most likely to relapse again as the reason for whom you are doing it is no longer a motivator but a reason to give in.
It is your life, and you do it for yourself more than you do it for anybody else, and if you do it for yourself and you are then the best version of yourself she and others will benefit from that automatically. And it frees you from needing them. We're no longer needy, no longer craving pleasure, instant gratification, validation, approval, no longer hunting external stimuli.

 

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Hi and welcome @Reiniciador777. Great you are joining us in the Challenge. You are now on the finaList and on your way to be a GUARDIAN in 5 days. YAY!

Remember

• Check in daily, it helps to stay committed and encourages all to thrive.
• On Day 0, check in and tag me. I then unlock your achievement and you will be a GUARDIAN.
• Add the link to your signature: {Your countdown goal} in •THE FINAL NOFAP COUNTDOWN• (Copy/Paste).
  
• After a week of inactivity the ✔ will be removed.
• After 10 days of inactivity you will be removed from the finaLIST.

Stay strong, safe, fresh and well.

- Spontifex

 

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Heyhou @queen_of_diamonds, good you're back. You are on the finaList and on your way to be an ASSASSIN in 60 days. YAY!

Remember

• Check in daily, it helps to stay committed and encourages all to thrive.
• On Day 0, check in and tag me. I then unlock your achievement and you will be an ASSASSIN.
• Add the link to your signature: {Your countdown goal} in •THE FINAL NOFAP COUNTDOWN• (Copy/Paste).
  
• After a week of inactivity the ✔ will be removed.
• After 10 days of inactivity you will be removed from the finaLIST.

Stay strong, safe, fresh and well.

-Spontifex

 

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