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The wet dreams are annoying

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by AI7, Dec 4, 2021.

  1. AI7

    AI7 Fapstronaut

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    I have been cruising along nofap 2.0 (second attempt) just fine, I have managed to reach day 65 with no issues. I got on with my daily life and trying to achieve my goals. My streak broke due to having a one night stand which isn't anything bad in my eyes. However, I have had two wet dreams on consecutive nights which made me annoyed.

    The reason for my annoyance is due to my size not being at its optimal length and girth. Over a certain amount of time going through abstinence, it will get better as the days go on. I do know that wet dreams are in a state of unconsciousness and it happened unintentionally, but they make the whole nofap journey very jarring.

    I have no problem with nofap, I do not watch porn anymore, I stay focused on my goals and I do not masturbate. Does anyone have any advice regarding this?
     
  2. It’s 2 fold. 1 part psyche 1 part energy flow. Your body has a default mechanism to protect you from injuring yourself from semen backup(ejaculation in your sleep). Ways to avoid this are 1. Breathing exercises and mediation. 2. Workouts and creative outlets that consume focus and willpower 3. Conscious eating, avoiding “negative” aka stimulating pranic foods past noon. (Hot sauces, peppers, coffee, onions, garlic etc.)

    You can reduce these to almost zero but this is a lifelong process that , unless you do extensive training and meditation, will not fully go away. It’s just the body flushing itself of semen backup so you don’t hurt yourself.

    this of course is just my opinion and what I’ve done over the years to help reduce them and also avoid feeling backed up like I’m gonna explode lol
     
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  3. Why does nocturnal emission bother people so much? It's like saying it bothers you if you urinate.
     
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  4. koolpal

    koolpal Fapstronaut

    It's not necessarily seminal fluid, but can be prostatic fluid congestion.

    The wet dreams eventually lessened in frequency, and then the fluid just comes out after urination (without erections or orgasms).

    I'm not bothered by either one. Rather, I see it as natural ways the body regulates itself.

    Yeah, also noticed spicy foods seems to cause this reaction too.

    Hope that helps.
     
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  5. New Journey

    New Journey Fapstronaut

    It doesn't really matter. In a way I'm thankful when it does happen because its just a way of knowing that you're getting better. Until I started NoFap I never ever had a wet dream, I thought it was just one of those 'mothers tales' or whatever you want to call it. The only annoying thing I experience is when the wet dream contains something that I want to remove from my life. This could be an old video I'm addicted to, or some girl I used to know. Some people PMO every day, especially to begin with, and then you just stop. It takes some time for your body to adapt to this sudden change.
     
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  6. AI7

    AI7 Fapstronaut

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    To be quite honest with you I do eat a lot of spicy food due to my culture :D
     
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  7. legendracer79

    legendracer79 Fapstronaut

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    If my boyfriend goes for 2 weeks or more without masturbating himself then sometime after that he will probably get a wet dream.
     

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