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[90-CHALLENGE] THE NINETY DAYS CHALLENGE !

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by 2525, Oct 27, 2017.

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  1. Tuinuane

    Tuinuane Fapstronaut

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  2. Srisurya

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    Guys after 80 day streak I was able to.make 12days and a 5 day streak. And relapses are generally now multiple. I lost all the benefits. Guys suggestions. The relapses and urges are not me anymore. They are having their own life inside me ..they control my body. I can't control my body. Suggestions guys. Answers guys. Waiting here
     
  3. Swaraj2020

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    To add one more reason for our mission to quit PMO, I will try to analyse porn industry from an ethical perspective in this post.

    Porn industry is based on people's vulnerability. Many who are pushed into porn, prostitution or any other sex trade are people who are most vulnerable. Few are vulnerable due to economic or social factors while others are vulnerable due to emotional and physical factors. It is this vulnerability on which the porn industry thrives.

    Although, the industry provides them with a livelihood for few years, it takes a heavy toll on their physical and mental well-being. Many actresses have expressed that even after quitting the industry their past haunts them continuously. We have gathered here to quit PMO because of the negative impact it had on us. Just imagine the psychological and emotional impact it could have on the people who actually act in these movies.

    While in the west the industry is more organised and formal, it is very much worst in developing countries like India. We find people's private videos being flooded on porn websites without their knowledge. One video clip can destroy the person's life especially in a society dominated with patriarchy.

    Thus, we need to remember that quiting our addiction to Porn not only liberates us but it will make this planet a little more better place to live.
     
  4. Golden-Balls

    Golden-Balls Fapstronaut

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    I think Recall how you did the 80day steak, and try to use that. Mostly the commitments and decisions and things you used to do
     
  5. Golden-Balls

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  6. frequentdogwalker

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    7th day on this forum and 37th day of no PMO since I started.
     
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  7. charlie78

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  8. Robsoon

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    Man! This is how I felt in my relationship. I always thought that there's something wrong with my GF that she doesn't want to do certain things or she ain't as horny as me. Now after few months of working on my addiction I realize how wrong I was. Problem was ME... and my greed and wrong imagination, idea about sex... Idea I downloaded years ago... Porn kills real love, real sense of closeness, intimacy and magic. Thank you for your honest comment. I copy it and keep it safe in my treasure book. Stay strong my brother!
     
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  9. Robsoon

    Robsoon Fapstronaut

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  10. MrWinning

    MrWinning Fapstronaut

    Day 9/90 closing out. Heading into day 10/90.
     
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  11. thefishman

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    Once again starting over. This is a lifetime struggle for me. Hoping to get close to 90 by the end of the year. Gotta always keep my goals in mind
     
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  12. lookingtochange

    lookingtochange Fapstronaut

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    Day 2/90. Busy day, but feeling good!
     
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  13. Chis

    Chis Fapstronaut

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    Day 19
    Lot of urges,but got through it.
     
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  14. Quitporn forever

    Quitporn forever Fapstronaut

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    Thank you all
    Reading book will realise us which help to come out from porn addiction
    Not by a single book and don't expect immediate effect
    We will get confidence
    It make us a good human being
    Now I can complete 1 week without any difficulty eventhough relapse are still there but compare to previous day's where I used to watch porn daily
    And reading books slowly gets us towards what we wants (my belief)
     
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  15. Blaze21

    Blaze21 Fapstronaut

    Day 45/90
    Halfway through, let's keep going brothers!
     
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  16. Day 0/90
    Day 593 at attempting this challenge
    Day 206 weight training (M, W, F)
    Lifestyle: reduced caffeine, alcohol and sweets

    Yup, relapsed this morning. You won't believe this but I was triggered by a video my mother forwarded to me yesterday of semi-nude cancan dancers. Once the dopamine surge hit, I could only hold it at bay for so long, circled the drain a few times, then reset my counter. Ironic since it was my mother who started my porn addiction by showing me my Dad's Playboy mags when I was about 10yo ... before I even knew how to cum. That's okay, shit happens and I don't hold bitterness toward my mother for it. At least I am consistent as my thresh-hold seems to be about a month and this one went a little longer at 35 days.

    Onward and upward, gentlemen.
     
    Last edited: Sep 10, 2020
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  17. Tuinuane

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    What you don't know is that you are one of the people who motivated me to reach my current streak. I remember you updating day 68 and I was really struggling with relapses and urges but your counter gave me a new motivation.
    I can also relate with where you are, after 100 days last year in October, I got to that point where I could no longer control my body, I lost all the benefits..it was really bad. As much as you are saying you don't have control I believe it is your body that that is still being exposed to triggers. What are your triggers? You need to be deliberate and tackle them, I realized sometimes triggers are many, simply because you have dealt with some and still you are relapsing doesn't mean you are defeated. Analyze upto the last trigger and get intentional to kill. It may take time but you are not defeated.All the best!
     
    Last edited: Sep 10, 2020
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