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How do you shave you're genitals if you have a sensitive skin?

Discussion in 'Off-topic Discussion' started by kingpietro, Aug 22, 2017.

  1. RocCity

    RocCity Fapstronaut

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    Having it banned? Will I walk out into the streets and have cops pull down my pants and check for hair? I don't know but I think I lean a little libertarian on the pubic hair issue - to each their own.
     
  2. kingpietro

    kingpietro Fapstronaut

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    I have a fantasy of doing the 69 position. I i didn't mentioned it and ignored it because i didn't shave. I didn't even asked it or mentioned it in our relationship . A few weeks ago she told me she had a big fantasy 69.. So i am considering to shave for trying that position.

    She olso mentioned she feels guilty for not giving me oral seks because i give her oral seks and she gets big orgasme from it. And she wants to please me to that way..

    So thats why i am considering removing the hair.

    I thinx i should change the question "is using a trimmer a good way to make it more comfortable for a woman to give you oral sex". I don't want a bush like a pornstar completely naked just better for oral sex
     
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  3. I don't understand why you're asking this question on a forum instead of asking her. Not all women are the same. My husband doesn't shave, and I don't care, and your lady might not care either. Or she might care and want you to shave. The only way you can know what will make her more comfortable is to ask HER. Asking a bunch of random dudes on the internet is pointless. They don't know what your girlfriend likes.
     
  4. Fuckin-a.
     
  5. You're too "hip" for me. Is that good or...?
     
  6. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

    HappyDaysAreHereAgain Fapstronaut

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    I know that I speak a colonial version of the common language that separates us, but the meanings that I am accused of espousing are not what I wrote. A washed bush is certainly clean. Even unwashed, it is so clean that, if we are concerned about germs, we should wash our hands before we urinate, not after. That being said, there are people who like an long unwashed, filthy, funky smelling bush. That is not who he is trying to impress. He needs to do whatever it takes to impress her, even if it means shaving or strawberry gel. Hopefully, she will be trying just as hard to impress him. We can let them do their own thing, as we have our own people to impress.
     
  7. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

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    Each person is unique, that is why communication is so important. When my wife first met me, I had a full bushy beard. She liked it, and we married. When I shaved it for a job, she looked at me and cried. When I changed jobs, it quickly grew back. That experience did not motivate me to consider shaving anything else. Twice I had to shave my junk for surgeries, and my wife did not like the bristly feeling as it grew out, so I have not shaved it again. Occasionally I do prune the bush back a bit, but I do not shave. Life is better when Mama's happy. Keep yours happy and enjoy her keeping you happy.;)
     
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  8. It's probably more...than good.
     
  9. I assume you mean, I speak English and you speak American.
    I am pleased we agree that a hairy dick and balls does not equate to: dirty.
     
  10. kingpietro

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    I WANT TO DO THE 69 position. But having a full bush isn't really helpful lwhen you are trying to do that position.

    I know she doesn't care i have a full bush she is a nice girl and would even try it when i have a full bush. But i care about her and i don't want to feel her uncomfortable .

    But maybe you are right this is something i should talk to her about it. This topic wasn't supposed to become a a discusion on shave or not but more the best way to do it.
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  11. Protagonist

    Protagonist Fapstronaut

  12. Trimmer is probably the best way. Don't shave completely if you have sensitive skin.

    But you just said that she doesn't care about your hair, so I don't get why you're still saying you want to make her comfortable... she already is comfortable. 69ing has nothing to do with shaving. There's no reason I can think of that you would need to shave to be able to do that.

    But I still stand by my main point, which is that you should ask her if she wants to do 69ing and if she would want you to shave for that or not. Simple.

    I realize you're asking for methods of how to shave best, but you also said you have incredibly sensitive skin, so my answer to your question is, don't shave. It's going to be itchy and painful and a huge annoyance for you. Especially since your girlfriend doesn't seem to care. If you use a trimmer, as long as you don't go too short, it shouldn't cause itching.

    I'm still really confused about what you're trying to say, but whatevs.
     
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  13. That makes two of us.
     
  14. Lol okay... you responded to my post with "fuckin-a," and I didn't know what that meant. That's what I'm confused about. If you care to explain, go ahead, but if not, whatever.
     
  15. Fuckin-a is an expression used when you agree with the other person. It's a crude way of saying "spot on" or "bingo".
     
  16. Ah, gotcha. That's all I was asking. That's why I said "is that a good thing?"
     
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  17. Just a heads up but it only itches the first time you shave it. Same with almost any hair. The first time you shave your beard it'll itch. The first time you shave your armpits or body hair it'll itch. The first time you shave your balls it'll itch.

    Do it again and it won't.

    Also, @kingpietro: The skin on your face and on your balls are very different. It's pretty rare to have dry skin on your genitals, while VERY common to have dry skin on your face. I also get pretty bad dry skin on my face, so shaving can sometimes irritate my skin and cause it to flake etc. Never had the same issue down under.

    The trick if you have dry sensitive skin by the way is just to moisturise right after shaving, since shaving dries it out further. I don't like using actual moisturiser because the non-greasy ones don't work well enough for my dry skin, and the greasy ones are uncomfortable, so what I instead do on my face is I use beard oil that I have left over from when I was trying to grow a beard. It isn't visible or greasy, and it completely does the job at keeping my skin from drying out. So I apply it after every shave.

    In a worst case scenario if your skin is already flaking, put on vaseline, it'll make your face look greasy as fuck but it'll prevent it from drying out further and by the next day it should be better.

    As for your balls, you shouldn't have that issue. It's one of those areas like your armpits that sweats a lot, so it's very unlikely you'll have dry skin there.

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    As for whether or not to shave/trim, I say that's a matter of personal preference, but if you enjoy having someone go down on you, its polite to at the very least keep it trimmed. Nobody wants stray pubes in their teeth, kthx. :D
     
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  18. Exactly! I don't want to go down on a woman who looks like she's smuggling Bob Ross's afro down there. Likewise I'm not going to ask a woman to tackle my happy tree unless I've landscaped first. That's called being considerate.
     
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  19. Hm... maybe it's different for women or people with sensitive skin, but that's definitely not true. It itches when hair starts growing back. When everything is smooth, it's usually fine, or when everything is hairy, it's usually fine, but the mid-point is when itching happens. At least for me, and for my husband. That's why I advised not to trim too short.
     
  20. Well as long as your dick is longer than your public hair, you should not have a problem with this. My gf at least never complained.
    But what she does complain about is the hair on my balls, because when she wants to lick them, she gets hairs in her mouth. (Before I was completely shaven)
    But in case you do shave your balls, be aware of the fact that
     

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