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Has This Happened to You???

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Redbull1996, Sep 6, 2017.

  1. Redbull1996

    Redbull1996 Fapstronaut

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    So I recently went through an embarrassing situation with a girl this weekend that's been seriously concerning me. I'm a 21 year old guy in decent shape, I've beening PMO'ing almost every day since I was 14.

    This past weekend, I found myself hooking up with a girl I've known for quite sometime. She knows I'm still a virgin, but we hookup every now and then "just the small stuff". I was performing oral on her, then when she said it was my turn, I felt a sense of panic... it felt as if my mind and body were completely disconnected (also I was still buzzed from alcohol). She was sitting on me as we kissed to try and get me hard.... but nothing worked. I even went into the bathroom and quickly searched my favorite fetish porn as a last ditch effort. I couldn't get hard whatsoever.

    This was a huge eye opener as I realized it was a mental issue, along with internet porn issue. I've had this happen to me 2 times so far, and I'd like to hear who else has had this issue? I'm rebooting myself, and am confident I'll never experience this again. Thanks for reading guys!
     
  2. phwrancesco

    phwrancesco Fapstronaut

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    yup it happened to me when i was younger. That sense of panic...now the problem is solved :)
     
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  3. Trips

    Trips Fapstronaut

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    no biggie, it was just stress maybe added with you PMOing very frequently. And alcohol can be detrimental too.

    stop wanking completely and as the weeks go by, you will be ready to explode, no stress will hold you back. just chill and focus on enjoying the moment next time.

    you're very young at 21, you'll manage this.
     
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  4. Redbull1996

    Redbull1996 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks man! I also think the guilt set in for me. I don't have any emotional connection with this girl, or the other one I had this problem with.
     
  5. STRAIGHT GUY

    STRAIGHT GUY Fapstronaut

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    this is because of pornography. you should stop it right now forever.
     
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  6. Trips

    Trips Fapstronaut

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    Yup, as STRAIGHT GUY writes, this is because of P. it objectifies women and causes you to lose the ability to connect with people, or it definitely is harmful to this ability. abstain and you will be able to connect much better, speaking from experience. but abstain completely, no pictures, no watching, no wanking, nothing. complete cold turkey on P.
     

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