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Penis lock

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by MarinoBigFan1984, Sep 7, 2017.

  1. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

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    Began using a penis lock today. Curious as to if it will make continuing my reboot easier.
     
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  2. SelfControlIsTheGoal

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    YIKES. That dosent seem like a good idea to me. Who had the key if not you?
     
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  3. That's hardcore. Good luck
     
  4. Justintrojan

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    Yeah, be careful brother, you do want Mr Happy to work when its time to use it again. Don't break anything.
     
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  5. MarinoBigFan1984

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    I have the key guys. I'm testing it out.
     
  6. samnf1990

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    Seems like a way of inviting a kink or fetish into your sex life while remaining abstinant. Is it going to help your recovery or just make it feel more like porn?
     
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  7. MarinoBigFan1984

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    I'm considering it an extra layer of security like a porn blocker
     
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  8. S.A.D.

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    Thats too extreme in my opinion. Are you going to leave it on at night?
     
  9. If you find a cage for the little dude in your pants works for you (and many of them are easy to pull out of), then I agree it's a layer of protection.

    Not for everyone, that's for sure. Having it become another fetish is possible -- but most likely you'll use it like a site blocker on your computer.

    Safety first. Don't let it rub sores on you and know if it's too small and causing pain at night. Once you have a system that is safe and comfortable, consider ways of making the key harder to get to. Freeze it in a large container of ice, mail it to yourself, use a remailer service (they are used by people in motor homes to hold their mail until the travelers can tell the service where to send the mail).

    The most important thing is if a cage with a lock does not work for you, stop using it. Because you don't want to cause permanent damage.
     
  10. OrangeJuice13

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    Hahahahah dude that's hilarious. I always thought about doing something like that, but in retrospect self made discipline and willpower is the way to go, since it transfers to the rest of your life. NoFap ain't about quitting PMO, it's about making yourself a better person. Only quitting PMO is the first step to being able to do that. Try it out man, see if it helps you out. I'd be very interested to learn your experience with it. Upon doing some research, it does seem a little kinky though.... hope it doesn't backfire on you. Best of luck!
     
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  11. I Agree that between the two options OrangeJuice13's is the better.

    I learned in AA that willpower wasn't the answer - it was admitting that I was powerless over alcohol. Then, I put my recovery into the hands of my higher power.

    In AA we say, "I Can't. He Can. I'll let Him". Corn Fed? Yup, but it worked for me.

    There is a difference between the two and OrangeJuice13 makes a great point. In AA, the goal is to not drink (pretty much forever), but I don't want to never ever have sex again -- so willpower might be the answer here.
     
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  12. JakeWoods

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    I guess this is kind of a good idea. If you're one of those compulsive addicts that literally can't go 1 day without jacking it.

    What happens if you get a spontaneous erection and the little guy's locked up? What happens if you get a boner in your sleep? Won't the little guy get squashed? Lol.

    Let's just hope you don't lose the key and then have to get your friend round to cut it off with a £2 saw.
     
  13. MarinoBigFan1984

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    I did a lot of research on this issue. I do not wear it to sleep or bath. I have previously done 30 plus day reboots without extra help. I am 20 plus now with the lock on only for a few days and I've worn one in th past for another reason.

    The one I have is metal with adjustable screws. I made the width tight enough that a boner is slightly uncomfortable not causing agony. It has to be put on at the base of the penis while the penis is slightly hard. You also need to lube your penis with a little cream to prevent friction issues. I did have one super urge with a rock hard boner while wearing it and yes it was not pleasant. It does however teach you to control the urges faster because the pain/pressure of lock will not go away unless your boner relaxes. My device feels more like a girl squeezing your dick when she's mad at you than pain from a sharp instrument. Like I said it's an experiment
     
  14. is it working?
     
  15. Recoveryattempt

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    Dont wear it at night, if you get a morning erection, whats going to happen. Read this now before anything bad happens
     
  16. MarinoBigFan1984

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    If you see my previous post I don't wear it at night
     
  17. MarinoBigFan1984

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    So far so good
     
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  18. Third_Eye

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    How could you use the bathroom or shower with that thing?
     
  19. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    Go for it Bro if it helps you. Personally, I wouldn't use it on my penis but hey addiction is damn powerful so I totally get you. Hope it works out! Keep us updated
     
  20. MarinoBigFan1984

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    It a circular device you put around your the back of your shaft and interlocks. It is does not cover your peehole. Some can be worn in the shower but I take it off.
     

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